I'm not a expert or have a degree in Psychology, but I've been known to give good advice and have a bit of a nac for giving advice....
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My best friend is a lesbian and has been for awhile now. I think she came out to me like 2 years ago now. Anyway, lately she's been hanging all over me, begging me to spend more time with her, and everything. Sometimes I feel like she's flirting with me because she's all about cuddling on me and really touchy. I know like a two months ago her gf broke up with her so I guess she could just be lonely and clingy but she wasn't this way with me before. How can you tell if your lesbian friend has developed a crush on you? I don't want to be rude either way, but if she does like me then I want her to know I'm not interested in her that way. I just don't want to embarrass myself in the process if she doesn't like me :P (link)
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Well, the best bet, is to just ask her, if she's a true friend, she'll understand, being gay and being asked by a straight friend, is expected, trust me, I know... Let her know that you'll be there for her as a good friend, but nothing more then a close friend, she may be gay, but she's still a female and females are more understanding then males.....
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i have this friend and everyone says we should get together because were always fighting but we always fix it before the day is over this happens in school we dont really talk out of school iv asked question about him already on this website and they all tell me the same thing his into me and i like him back but i dont know what to do about this were on break now so i havent seen him but when we get back how do i get his attention how do i get him to tell me how he sees me without asking im kinda shy when it comes to that and he doesnt think i like him even though i do im just that good at hideing it so i dont know what to do now ? (link)
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Well, if your a girl, then maybe have a friend tell him you like him, but your to shy to tell him and if he really like you, have a friend tell him to come tell you and if he tells you, you won't be as shy anymore, your inner heart and humanity will take over, trust me.... But if he's shy to, then one of you has to make a move or you may never know, still have a good or best friend find out for you or try to find a place where you two will be alone and try to get the nerve to ask him if he likes you, its hard when your shy, trust me, I know (I'm shy), the worst that can happen, is that he'll tell you he doesn't like you in that way, but then at least you'll know and can move on... But if you a gay male, its harder, a best friend would be the best bet and then getting him alone....
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