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Well .. im 15 and ive been threw alota shyt so far in my life.. not everything but alot from family problems to friends and love life.. If you have a question I'll try my best to give you the best advice I can.. I like to play cs lol.. um i like to play sports watch sports go tanning..shopping and chyll with my friends..
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Is it bad to like people shorter than you?

i like this guy, but im like at least a head and a half taller than him...we're like bffs and i dunno...would it be akward to date someone shorter than me? im 5' 5" and im only 12. hes like a month younger and like i said about a head and half shorter.

please tell me what you think! i will rate high if u at least try to answer! (link)
Absoulty not. I was with a guy for a year who was shorter then me, there is nothing wrong with being with someone who is shorter then you


Alright lets start from the very start.. I used to have very short hair and glasses that made my eyes look bug eyed.. Well last year I got contacts (which I must say has changed my life) and My hair has grown out and is very long (blonde) and my eyes are deep green.. Well lets just say I have not had an easy time. Before I got contacts people would pick on me about my glasses and my hair. Well when I went into 8th grade My hair was long and ai had contacts so they didnt have a reason to pick on me but yet.. people still tryd. I did have bfs but i also had boy troubles.. no bf that actualy lasted long.. the longest was a month. Now I am going into highschool and I want to be noticed and i would like to not be picked on as much. I think it would also really be nice to find a guy that I could be with for atleast a while.. and I would like to get some guys attention.. Can you help me? please..

love maddie (link)
Maddie,
If you wont listen to me listen to these people every single one of them has said the same stuff i have, it may seem like everything to have a boyfriend but its not bc eventually somthing will happen look at tony and I. And there right you know.. if you are confident with yourslef guys will like you more.. like if you think your fat and a guy wants you to sit on his lap and your like " no no im to fat" they dont like that.. highschool? well its a big place but like ive said youll meet new people just like i did there so many more new people and when you get into highschool people do become a little more matture and not all into picking on glasses or how long your hair is.. just be YOURSELF and trust me youll find the person youve been looking for.

love ya,
court «3


i'm having trouble getting my parents used to the fact that me and my boyfriend have a 3 years difference in age. he's 16 and i'm 13. my mom likes him but my dad gets a little to protective about it and they won't let me drive around anywhere with him. he's a really sweet guy and i trust him with my life but my parents don't see my side to this. what could i do to get them to trust me and him together in a car and get them used to the age difference? (link)
hes your dad, dads are always pertective of there little girls no matter what age your boyfriend is..and i dont think you can change that yes you can change it so that he trust your boyfriend and likes him but your not gunna change your dad for being overprotective..


Well okay im going out with this guy [we will call him Yellow] and last night i found out that he was moving to a different state. But for some reason i was happy! i dont know why though because hes my boyfriend and i love him so much. Why is this!? im 14 \ f. please help [I RATE HIGH!] (link)
lol yellow..
anyways if your happy he leaveing to go to a different state you dont love him mayb like him but you dont love him


okay im 16and me and my boyfriend have been goin out 4 2 years now we had a massive argument da ova day and he put a knife to my throat and ses he would kill me if i shouted at him like that again i really like him thought and he dont always act like that but now im scared just to have an argument with him ive talked 2 him about it and he ses im being stupid bt i dont wana break up with him what do i do? (link)
well i had a relationship like that i was with a guy for a year and we said we loved each other but then he started beating me up and eveyrthing i almost went to the hospital one time and i wouldnt stop bleeding out of my nose mouth and ears for 3 - 4 days but your boyfriend holding a knife to your thoart is not good for you at all... i understand that you may love him and he might of said sorry and everything but thats what my ex did to he even helped me clean up after he would beat me but if he was sorry he wouldnt do it again but he did.. you need to leave that relationship befor anything happens to you even if he said sorry he could always do it again or even worse do it..no matter if you love him theres someone out there who would never think of doing that to you and you thats what you need..
hoped i help.


I really really like this guy named Mitch and he's just the nicest guy I've ever met before. He used to be friends with my older sister. He's been telling me he likes me, and like on aim always makes those kissing faces. Problem is; he's 21! I'm only 15. I know it's a huge difference and it's illegal. I really don't know where to go from now. I tell him I like him back, but I really want to date him, I'm just really not sure of how to tell him that. Any suggestions?
* if you think me dating a 21 year old is bad, please tell me, i'd like to hear other perspectives, too! thanks. =) (link)
well i dont really think you should go for it.. i had a friend that was 5 years younger then this guy.. she got hurt really bad from this she thought she loved the guy and he woudl treat her like complet shit i think its bc he knows hes older then her..she would give hium everything money when he needed it for his drugs or for his phone or w/e he needed and one day he beat the shit out of her bc he knew he could she wouldnt even tell anyone but someone seen it and called the cops he went to jail for about 6 months and shes still obsessed with this guy after eveything hes done to her.. idk you can trake it if you want but i personaly wouldnt i hated seeing my friend go threw that




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