Hay everyone my name is brittani... im on the right n my pic by the way! i play volleyball and soccer and track and run cross for school... i am a sophmore... and i love to help people in any way i can... ask anything... i prolly can relate to most of y'all's questions... family, love, friends, mental stuff.. just anything you need advice for... just ask!! hope i can help!! *kisses*
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Location: TEXAS
Age: 16
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I want to ask my crush to winter formal creatively. (girls ask guys for this dance)
I have different ideas. Please rate one through ten each idea on how cheesy it is [1 being not at all cheesy, 10 being wow that's cheesy!] And also give me feedback about each idea.
#1: The Guitar Pic Idea. I type "Will you go to winter formal with me?" in small font and print it out and cut it out and glue it onto one side of a guitar pic and put clear nail polish over it so it doesn't look tacky. Then I'd give it to him. (He likes to play guitar.)
#2: Fortune Teller Idea. This is probably most flirtatous. I playfully tell him I've learned palm reading. Ask for his hand and as I move my finger over different lines on his palms, I jokingly make up different predictions like "You will be a famous rockstar." Then I say "Let's see what's in your near future." Then as I look at his palm, I say "I see you going to winter formal with me." And then sincerly look at him and ask, "Would you like to go to winter formal with me?"
#3: Icing On The Cookie Idea. I bake cookies and on one write in icing "Would you like to go to winter formal with me?" (One problem: I've never baked cookies in my life before)
If you have any other ideas they are appreciated. Thanks in advance! (link)
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hay! well i like number 2 the best... thats the most casual which is good bc if for some wierd reason he said no itd be the least embarrassing bc i mean you were jus lookin at his hand n jokin around with him n then askin him but the others are actually putting a lot of work into it so thats jus my opinion... plus that way it wont look like you sat n thought up somethin to do.. itll look jus like your playin it cool which is what you prolly want! well i hope everything goes okay.. goodluck n tell me how it goes!
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Alright so basicly i just got out of a relationship and got my heart broken. Im ready to go out meet new guys hang out with guy friends and all that! How can i make myself out there and meet new guys? how can i show guy friends im single and something they should be interested in.. what are some things i could do? I really need this!!!
thanks
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well i dont know if you are an outgoing person or a shy one, but if you are shy well then thats the first thing thats gotta change... you gotta like be talkative n go up n talk to guys that your interested in and want them to be the same towards you! seriously if you need anymore help or anything you can ask me more or IM me my sn is brittani8217... i can totally help you, i sit with like 12 guys at lunch everyday and im the only girl haha like all i hang out with are guys so yea ill talk to you later but feel free to ask anything else! bye girl
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Okay i have a problem. See I really like this guy named Matt. About 2 months ago Matt went out with one of my good really close friends... Allison is her name. Then they broke up over a misunderstanding and now they hate each other.... Well, Matt always talks to me and he flirts with me today he even came over to sit at my table at lunch and that isn't even the first time. He says he like this girl named tori but i don't think she really likes him or he even has a chance. He says he's going to ask her out next year meaning the first day of 06' (when we get back from winter break). I try to like flirt with him occasionally to try to make him like like me because I like him Sooo much! But i can't tell anyone besides my bestfriend because people will hate me for liking him. If he did ever ask me out what would I say because Allison hates him to death and so do a bunch of other people like if i went out with Matt then i might lose more than half of my friends that's how much he's hated. The only reason people hate him is because like he went out with people and then the people he went out with and then broke up with then all that girl's friends hate him and them... so yeah. I don't know what to do....
Please help
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hay! well no boy is ever worth losing friends over. so i guess you're gonna have to ask yourself here, are you exaggerating a little maybe? i mean are you really gonna lose friends over being with him? i mean number one my opinion is that if a friend would hate you or stop being your friend over something stupid like that then they are not a very good friend. but that is besides the point. do you really think they will stop hanging out with you and stuff? and if so then the answer is no, you probably shouldnt go out with jus because if things havent worked out so well between him and other girls chances are that things arent going to last forever between you two either. so i wouldnt risk it but thats just me.
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thanx for the advice..i do hangout with boys all the time...i am outgoin...i fancy some guys so much but when i can get them when they fancy me i dont like them anymore..i just like the chase but i want a boyfriend to cuddle and kiss!!!!
i get so depressed i fancy this guy but hes got a girlfriend i think theyve split up but hes 17 and im 14...he asked for my number but he hasnt txt me and we flirted so much on holiday what do i do should i txt him????
thanx (link)
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yeah definitely text him... if he doesnt answer... forget him... but if he does then there ya go! by the way sorry it took me so long to respond i have been so busy! but ask any questions you have and i will get to them as soon as i can! good luck!
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hey lately all i think about is boys..im 14/f and i daydream about a perfect relashionship and i really want a boyfriend what do i do..i get depressed about it!!! (link)
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start hanging out with boys... like just as friends... and before you know it the perfect one will be right under your nose... dont stess over it... theres no such thing as the perfect relationship... you have to work at it to make it perfect... which if you want it bad enough you can do! you can get a boyfriend easily i am sure... so dont be shy.. be outgoing... and go find yourself a man!! ;)! goodluck feel free to ask any more questions ill answer asap! and also if everything works out for ya let me know about it!! bye girl have fun!
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okay well me and this guy have been "together" all summer... but were not really goin out... its wierd tho, he seems like he likes me one day and the next he wont talk to me... everytime i confront him he makes up some excuse like i had to go to the doctor, or i had to go shower... but ive kinda gotten fed up with it! hes really sweet and i really like him... but should i just stop talkin to him, or try and keep are relationship togteher and til we can move it further?? please help! (link)
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i know this is probably the answer you never want to hear... but you need to sit down and talk to him... and ask him sincerely... do you like me as much as i like you? and just explain how you feel... all your questions will be answered if you do that... youll have all the information you need to make the right decision... hope everything works out for you... good luck... feel free to ask any more questions i will answer as soon as i get them~
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There is this guy that I like a lot and we tend to flirt sometimes and stuff..... Well the thing is he has a g/f and I am friends with her and I would never want to hurt her..... I just feel bad because this is the one guy that I have come to like a lot and he is taken..... And now he does not talk to me anymore and I just want to be friends with him because our friendship means so much to me its just I dont know how to aproach this... can you guys help me out (link)
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hay girl!! definitely dont try to steal him.. your friends should be wayyy more important to you then just some guy... and you dont even know if y'all were 2 hook up that it would even work out... so dont risk it... if they do break up... and you still wanna give it a shot... then give it some time.. a few months or so and THEN go for him... but right now as far as just being friends suggest to your friend ((the girl)) that you her, him, and another guy all go hang out n do stuff... that way y'all can all hang out "as friends" hope everything works out for you... good luck!
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Me and my bf have gone out for 6 yrs.
Well one day I started to get tired of seeing him 24/7
So I told him that and I think he thought we were breaking up.
I only wanted alittle alone time
A week later I saw him with another girl
and I asked him what was going on
but he told me we broke up so he moved on.
Now im really jealous and been trying to to tell my bf I never really wanted to breakup with him I just wanted alone time and he keeps saying thats considered breaking up.
Does anyone have any advice on what I could do? (link)
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sit down and seriously talk with him... and tell him that you love him ((if you do)) and just explain that you were just a little stressed and were in one of those mood phases where you needed a few days to yourself... and that you meant nothing more by it... you love him and you never wanted to end it... you just needed some days to get your self together... if he doesnt understand then he totally isnt worth it!
good luck girl!
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Aight, I just had my first taste of love, and now, I'm pissed off at people who look for just sex appeal or hotness. That's not true love, it's just how they look. How can I get un-pissed without seeing a therapist? Thanks, and by the way, I give 1s to wiseasses. (link)
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im assuming your a girl... so if youre not im very sorry take no offense please..
well anyways,
try to find a really good guy friend... or if you already have one talk to him about all this... ask him if he knows any guys that are good guys that arent out for all that kinda stuff... and also do stuff for you... that makes you feel better... like go get your nails n toes done.. take like nightly walks to cool down and relax.. in no time itll be like nothing happened... good luck!
sorry okay well still all that above only switch the guys to girls! lol sorry!
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my boyfriends birthday is coming and i don't know what to get him i want it 2 be special but something that he will like does any one have any ideas on what to get a guy
please help i'll rate you a 5 iuf you can help (link)
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hay girl well i hope you like some of these... i have a boyfriend of one year right now but his bday is a few months away but ive still been brainstorming lol... well heres some...
**scrapbook of tons of pics n stuff of you n him
**a bear from build a bear that you made yourself
those are some sweet things but remember if you dont feel like its enough stuff you can always add something bigger to go with it that isnt a special but that way you have somethin special n somethin jus cool!
heres some bigger things..
**ipod or some other mp3 player
**gift card to a sports place
**some good smelling cologne like abercrombie and fitch or hollister!
**the new playstation 3
sorry girl hope this helps ya!
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