Hey. I can only truly know one person in my life. and thats me. But beleive me i will do everything i can to put my self in your position and give you the best advice i can. Ive been though 2 parental divorces, moving halfway across the country, family deaths, and i was even abused by my mother quite harshly, but now i no longer live with her. Ive expeirience quite alot though out my 16 years. So theres alot i can realte to in some way or another.
SO please. NEVER feel shy. Im open to anything.
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OK so I'm not trying to sound concieded but i no i'm really popular and my boyfriend gets really mad because everyone stops and talks to me and asks me questions. And he doesnt like that i have a lot of guy friends. But thats just how i am i have a million friends i'm really socail what do i tell him (link)
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Let him know that despite all your guy friends, you love him. If you wanted one of your guy friends, you would be dating them, but your not, your dating him. so make sure he knows hes the only one for you. Tell him that just because your social, it dont mean you forget him, and that hes important to you. :]
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My Ex and I just got back on speaking terms. We were told that a close friend of ours sabotaged the relationship because he wanted to go out with me.... which turned out to be true. I have wanted to tell my Ex about getting back together. I've called him and emailed and I haven't heard anything from him. I saw him the other night and we were hanging out and things were just fine. I don't know what to do. I want to tell him, but how? What are some approaches I can use? (link)
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The casual "i thought you knew" approch. Like some how get one that guys name. like say that bad friends name is bob. say like "yeah that one day when me and bob went shopping it was fun,""but i still cant trust hhim after what he did to us" then if your ex says WHat do you mean? say like "HOw he sabotaged us? you never heard???" or theres the STraight up approach. Just some how casually get on the subject of you dating. and just bring it up about him and how mean that was and your sorry and stuff.
good luck. livelaughlearnloveLIFE
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do girls like it when you look them in the eye when you talk to them (link)
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Yes actually. we do. Because when guys look away from us when theyre talking, we dont know if theyre lying. And some times Guys look around if theyre nervous, like about breaking up or somthing, so when you do that, we dont know if your about to dump us. ALso, we dont know what your looking at. you might be saying i love you and looking at some other girls goodies at the same time. It makes us feel uncomfertable. WHen you look at girl in the eyes, we know that your being honest and that your looking at US and not some one else. And we also feel like maybe your thinnking "wow her eyes are gorgeous". Even if you werent, we still think that which makes us feel good :].
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So I had a friend back three years ago. And back then, we were too young to date, but we both really liked eachother-- just didn't tell one another. But I knew he liked me and he knew I liked him. He went to this private school and I hadn't heard from him in three years when I saw him at my day camp--- we are counselors at my camp. And he is so different and some of my friends like him, though he doesn't like them, and I think I might.
Or I wanted to talk to him more than we did today because I really enjoyed it.
Is there anything I can do? We haven't been frieds in so long and we are both so different. (link)
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JUst make casual conversation for starters. I mean if it worked out like this, then it was meant to be. its not no coincidence. What you can do is remind him of when you were friends. "hey do you remember that one time when we ...." That will start converstaion then make him remember the times.then casually say somthing maybe like "i remember liking you" and maybe itll go from there. or just take it slow and make casual conversation building up to when you actually want to tell him how you really feel.
fjdsh GOODLUCK
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I met this guy in like, February. Freaking awesome. He was totally hitting on me and he was always smiling. We hooked up that night. I gave him my number, just to see if he would call me. 2 weeks later he did. He said he enjoyed his time with me and wanted to hand out again. We tried to get together for 4 months, but nothing worked. I won't get into detail on that. Everytime I talk to him, he ALWAYS makes me smile and feel wonderful about myself. He said he appreciates it when I call and when I talk to him. He said he doesn't care what other people think. He said that he really likes me and wanted to be more than friends. Well we became more than friends. Ever since then I've been feeling like I love him, not like him. I mean like really love him. My horoscopes make perfect sense, my intuition is leading me in the right direction, and I've been oh so happy. I told him that he makes me feel like I'm worth something and he said, "You deffinately are." He helped me get through a tough time, and he helped me stop cutting. I helped him stop smoking...for a while, and he's just perfect for me. I just don't know how to tell him I want to date him. plus, my dad doesn't like this at all, and i want him to understand. Any ideas? SORRY IT WAS SO LONG. (link)
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Follow those instincts you have. Dont let this go. if hes really as great as you say, then go for it. take it from me, when you have somting special, take it. or youll regret it. Call him one day and tell him your ready to take your relation ship up a notch. You want to start dating. call him say "ive been thinking letly, and your really awsome, maybe we could takes our relation ship further?" or somthing along those lines. And as far as your dad, hes just being a dad. NOt many fathers like the idea of his baby girl dating some boy. If your really love this boy, go for , despite what your dad thinks. Deep down, dad wants you to be happy. So he'll learn to accept it. Hes just looking out for you.
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Grr!! This guy I kind of like but kind of don't keeps calling my cell phone and asking me if I want to hang out with him and I really don't want to! I keep bailing on him and I feel really bad!! So anyways, I told him that I lost my cell phone (WHich was a lie.) and he was like, ok just give me your home phone. WTF he didn't even ask! he just like forced me. (Well not really.) so what was I gonna do, say no, you can't have it. He thinks I like him a lot, when I only like him a little bit. (God, I sound so B****y, but I'm really not like this.) So anyways, I really don't want him calling my house phone. Like seriously. And I just gave it to him a few minutes ago and I really don't want him to call me!! Please what should I do!!
P.S.- Please don't tell me to tell him to stop calling, cause I just can't confront guys like that. Last time I did, he cryed the whole day. (I want out with an emo child.) (link)
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Ehh. well if you wanna avoid telling him straigt up, you could always just lie.
Sounds mean. It is. but if you dont wanna hurt him, say like. IM GROUNDED FOR BACK TALKING MY PARENTS AND CANT USE THE FONE ANMORE. or casually bring up a boy friend. even if you dont have one. if your talking about shoes, casusally say like "yeah my boyfriend has these really ugly shoes with a yellow stripe..." maybe he'll leave you alone. who knows.
good luck :]
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