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hey guys! my name is alicia and i had an account a long time ago but it got deleted so now im back!

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now that it's summer my bf and i spend a lot of time together. we don't have a lot of money, nor do we want to constantly spend it all...but we will spend it on things like movies and dinners. other than that, we stay at home and watch tv usually. it's pretty hot outside, so it's kind of limiting...but i'm still open to suggestions. basically- WHAT CAN WE DO? i love being spontaneous but he usually needs future notice, i'd like to plan a lot of things for us to do so i don't get bored just sitting at home. what's fun for couples to do in the summer thats not outrageously expensive? (link)
it could be fun to go to a waterpark because they are usually fairly inexpensive, its all day, and you get to show off your body and see your bfs at the same time haha

you could also try something like mini golf, go karts are fun hah or go mudding or something haha i dont know about you but thats what we do down here in texas! haa

hope i helped! xox


My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other almost every day, and i still really really like him, i just need a day without him. It's come to the point where even the little things he does that wouldn't/shouldn't bother me normally and are just little pet peeves are having me question our relationship, even though i know i'm being stupid and blowing this out of proportion. The only problem is that he sent me this really long email last night about how he misses me already even though it's only been like an hour since he saw me and how much he wants to see me today, etc, etc. I don't want to lie to him about why i can't see him today, but i would really like to let him down easily. any suggestions? (link)
you dont have to lie to him you can just tell him that your not in the mood for hanging out and you just want to nap or rest or something! if he doesnt take it well then just be straight forward with him and tell him that you need some time to yourself.

hope i helped! xoxo


okay so i have no clue who is right in this situation. please help! okay so i saw this guy in my summer school class yesterday and i thought he was really cute but he was also very familiar. so i asked his name ad found out it was one of my best friends good friends that she met at the mall one day. so i guess she called him that night and asked if is was him in my class and he said yeah, so then se asked hmim to a movie on saturday. and after she got off the phone with him me and her were talking and i said he was cute and she told me to back off. now i would have been totally fine with this except for THIS part of the story. she liked him for like a week when she met him but after a while they stoped talking cause he was ignoring her calls and all.so she just called him last night after like thrree months of not talking..... he isnt her property and i mean i never even said that i liked him!!! i dont know what to do. it really pissed me off that she said that. am isupposed to be lie whatever and forget about him? or talk to her about it????? pleeezeee help!!! thanks (link)
it looks like your girlfriend is the type of girl that wants whatever you want and that is really tough!

you should let them go on the date and see what happens
but if you think hes cute and you like him then nobody said you cant talk to him! and if he wants to talk to you then there you go!

just go for it girl and if your friend has problems with it then whatever its not her business anyway!

good luck hun! xox


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okay so my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time. the only prob is i don't really see my friends anymore. they tend to make their plans the day of or even hours in advance & by that time, i already have plans. how am i supposed to still hang out with them when i already have plans? they aren't as close to me anymore with anything which isn't good. it's especially hard because my boyfriend doesn't really like the guys they hang out with which makes it harder. so please any suggestions? i really need help getting my friends back! and hanging out with them more often!! thanks! (link)
my best friend is in the same situation but her boyfriend is more controlling of her

you just need to let your boyfriend know that you wont get to see him everyday and you still want to have your friends in your life
and for your friends you can call them and make plans in advanced when you know you have free time that way they can make time for you too!


just make sure you let your friends know you still care about them and you want to hang out with them too!

hope i helped! xox




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