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First name? Greatest. Last Name? Ever.
Junior at SCHS; 16 years young.(:
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Bestfriends? Amber Kantner & Kaitlyn Williams.
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So my boyfriend and I were hooking up the other night and we were getting really into it and I was pretty turned on and he went to start fingering me, which I wanted him to do, but he kinda just stuck his hand down there and went to town. Like ALL OVER town. I think he actually got lost in town...anyway it so did not feel good and I was totally turned off right away. I tried moving his hand where I wanted and stuff but he wasn't moving it with me. I'm not sure if he didn't know what I was trying to do or what, but either way it didn't work. Eventually (not that long after) I just pulled his hand out. How do I help him get better without hurting his feelings? (link)
Just talk to him about it.

Straight up.
If you think that will hurt his feelings, then maybe talk to him about it in a different approach? Like.. asking him what he likess or prefers. & then tell him what you want. Or make it more obvious, next time you try to movee his hand.


I'm 15 and male, my partner is 15 and female. We are both virgins. Is it impossible for us to contract STD's? (link)
it's possiblee,
better safe thenn sorry.


My boyfriend got in a wreck a week or so ago. We used to see each other every weekend and every Friday. We were never apart. It was great. But now we barely see each other outside of school and I'm just not feeling our relationship anymore. This distance is terrible. I barely have the money and gas to go to his house and he has no car. We always said that the distance would never effect our relationship. I'm the first girl he ever felt strong feelings for and I never stop thinking about him, but not seeing him a lot makes me lonely and depressed. I try to hang out with friends and keep busy but I can't. How do I make these feelings go away? I could never ever break his heart. (link)
Did he get hurt badly in the wreck? Maybee, him getting hurt in the wreck scared you a bit.. & made you afraid to have feelings for him. Because you're afraid that if you're in love with him, and something was to happen to him, you'd be alone?

For the distance thing, distance DOES make a relationship hard. I've been there, done that. But it's not impossible. If it's really worth it, then you have to push yourself to make the relationship work.

But you shouldn't try to change the way you feel. If you don't feel the same way you did about him before, then you can't help it. It's not meant to be. Maybe it's better to break up, and break his heart. Than to keep dating him, and try to change your feelings.. only to find out that you can't. Then breaking up with him in the end anyway.


how do you know when a guys wants to kiss? (link)
Body Language.
For example, looking at your lips, or licking theirs.




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