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Q: 13/f
my mom won't let me make my own decisions. I realise that if I screw things up, it'll be my fault & I'll have to suffer my own consequences. My mom explained that whole thing to me and I said I was willing to do that, but then at the end she's all like "ah I'm still not letting you. that was hipathetical" and I'm like WTF.
She thinks that I'll get pregnant or have sex or do drugs. and I already told her that i'm not stupid & i won't do that. All I want to do is go over my boyfriends house, and i'm not even allowed to do that. My boyfriend has been over my house every single time. Now my boyfriend is mad at me because I'm never with him, and everytime we're over my house we're being watched over like a hawk.
I know I'm only 13 but i'm not stupid. And everyone else is allowed to be with boys. I'm even interested in having sex, and my mom says that all boys this age are. Even if it's true, he won't be anywhere near me. My mom is ruining every single relationship I have.
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i am 13 too and I totally know what you're feeling, and I know that it stinks. You need to tell you're mum exactly what you told me, and then see what she says, tell her that she is ruling youre whole life, tell her that she can't always watc over you, tell her that you need to grow up and make you're own descisions. And you also need to tell you're boyfriend this too. He won't be mad, and if he is, i he woth keeping. Good luck!
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Q: Hi i am 18 and a female.i have a problem. i use to work at chucky cheese six months ago and i've been noticing this guy that works there and i imediately had feelings for him like overnight. anyways, im a very picky person when it comes to guys and this person (we can call him joe), fits all of my standards. he is a vegetarian which i think is very attractive, he likes the type of music that i like and that is rare, and we have the same outlook on life, and love, it's scary. but i have one problem. He is white and im black and we come from two different worlds. it;s hard having this racial tension because im attracted to white guys for some reason. im afraid to tell him how i feel because i fear of being rejected and humiliated. and i don't know if he is attracted to black girls or not i don't know im scared to ask. so my question is, how do i tell someone from a different race how i feel about them?
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if "joe" really liks you as much as you like him, things like this shouldn't be a problem. Just ask him to dinner ad see what happens, what is the worst that could possibly happen except that he says no? Besides, finding out about you're partner is vey interesting and can keep arkward silences away.
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Website: Gender: Male Location: Doncaster, England Occupation: Student Age: 13 Member Since: April 11, 2007 Answers: 8 Last Update: April 11, 2007 Visitors: 1536
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