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I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half now. We're currently living together. We're both still virgins and that's not the problem. My guy... he's just not that affectionate and it's very discouraging to me. When he comes home from work, he won't even come and hug me or kiss me or say hello and it makes me feel sad, like he doesn't WANT to come see me and kiss me. When we go to bed at night, he's just like "good night" and that's it. Nothing more. I really don't think he's losing interest in me, because he's always sort-of been this way. Is there any way that I can encourage affection from him? Any ideas that'll make him want to come give me affection?
Please help! :]
Oh, I'm 18/F (link)
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Surprise him. Yeah! Surprise him with something. Something that will make him think/say "I can't believe you did this for me!" You can surprise him when he comes home from work... with a romantic dinner... or surprise him on your next date..... with SOMETHING romantic that will make him LOVE you MORE [if that's possible] .
I dont know, .. it's the little things that makes your mate smile, laugh, happy. Be creative!
Do something thats different and we'll see how he reacts to it.
Good luck!
;anonymous_girl
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ok so I was with this guy for like a month and a half, but it was the best month and half lol. Like three weeks ago on thursday he told me he needed time to think but that we were still together of course I was hurt but I backed off because he lost his job and maybe he needed time. Well it's been almost and month and he has yet to call me back.Then last night after I got home from clubbing I texted messaged him ( I tend to drunk text people) telling him I missed him not thinking he would text me back and he did. He told me he needed to talk to me and he called me sweety and everything (but he was drunk as well) so I really didn't think much of it. My problem is I can't stop crying over him. I miss him so much...I try to keep myself busy but it just doesn't work I always end up thinking about him. Please someone tell me what I can do...I'm so tired of crying over a guy who doesn't even care if I'm alive.It hurts so bad...Please someone tell me what I should do. (link)
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Awww, well i feel you. i can see what youre going through. but from what i think.. he doesnt care about you anymore. which means you have to move on, even if you really like him STILL. I guess it's normal because I've felt that way too and I've heard a lot of stories related to yours..
My advice is to confront him in person and GET THINGS STRAIGHT. If you have to say things straight up to his face, even if it's hard, Do It.
At least you know what his motives are.
Trust me, it's the best thing to do! :)
;anonymous_girl
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