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I like this guy but he has a gf. My friends say that if i asked him out he would say yes and some say he would say no cause like he has the gf. My one friend says that he would say yes definately when they break up...but like it doesnt seem like they're breaking up anytime soon this time theyve been together. But like he flirts with me and stuff when shes not around but then when she is shes all over him so like he cant really flirt sometimes. But like my friends say he likes me. Do you think i should ask him out?? (( if more info needed just say.. thanx ))
why wouldn't you. and if you have read any of my answers you would know my answer. just do it.
Hey,
Iv got a boyfriend in my high school, who i love. But iv had this friend for a while, a pretty good friend, attractive and nice, cool and intrested to listen, he's a whole lot better than my boyfriend, and i like him more than a friend. But i have had my boyfriend for a very long time, and i dont know if i would dump him for this new guy. This guy has liked me for a very long time also, but he doesnt know I know. Some of his friends told me, and thats when i knew i liked him back. I dont know what to do, how can you help?
well if you like him better why wouldn't you go out with him? if your boyfriend at the time isn't good enough, just because its been a while doesn't mean it would be.. wierd? its a better chance too. i think you should go out with the new guy. but stay close with your boyfriend now.. in case you guys ever get together again.
When you're talking to a gurl what do you enjoy talking about?? Well im asking because i like this guy who has a gurlfriend but like i dont know what to talk to him about all the tie..i dont want to talk like wierd or anything...but wut would u talk about if you were me?? Well...what do you like when they talk to you about??
it really depends.. like if something happens in school, tell him about it. or if someone says something, ask what he thinks. ask him what he did that day. stuff like that.. it really depends what your situation is.
ok well i like this guy but he has a gurlfriend and he always says he loves her and stuff..but like they dont really talk and stuff but like i talk to him a lot and i get the vibe that he likes me but if he did then he would break up with his gurlfriend. I talk to the guy's friend and the friend and everyone else is saying i should ask him out. But my one friend says that he might say no cuz he likes his gurlfriend alot but like other ppl are saying i should just try it and see what he says..but he mite like act wierd if i do ask him out. Do you think i should ask him out or wait until him and his gurlfriend break up??
well just because he says he loves his girlfriend and is going out with her, doesn't mean he doesn't like you a little. maybe more then a little. but hes only with her because he already is and cant decide who to pick. i'd say to belive his friends that say to ask him out. i think you should too. dont wait because you might miss your chance. just do it.
...is that i dont kno if he really notices me..like he says hi and stuff..but how do i get him to like notice me and get him to konw me when his gurlfriend is always all up on him and doesnt really talk to me like about things other than hi and stuff..but he does talk whenever his gurlfriend and like no one else is there. But hoe do i get him to talk more and get to know me??
call him. and dont listen to what anyone says. just because they tell you it could be a lie and then ounce you get your hopes they will find out the truth and your hopes withh be crushed. you'll feel like shit so dont. you need to talk to him somewhere.....
----->>>>that was me..but like whenever i do call him he like sounds all pissed cuz hes usually on the other line with his gurlfriend. But like he just like asks me wut! when he answers and like it sounds bad..but like hes soo nice and stuff and really cute..but i just dont kno y he wont talk to me..like if i ask him he will just be like cuz i dont want to . But what should i do to get him to talk to me...other than the phone..cuz that doesnt work too well??
im.. not very sure. he sounds kind of assy though. so dont worry about him too much.
Well i think i might still like this guy but like im pretty sure i do..but im not the best of sure. Well everyone thinks he likes me..but he has a gurlfriend and his best friend said that he never taks about me and talks about his gurlfriend and is in love. But the thing is ...is that i dont kno if he really notices me..like he says hi and stuff..but how do i get him to like notice me and get him to konw me when his gurlfriend is always all up on him and doesnt really talk to me like about things other than hi and stuff..but he does talk whenever his gurlfriend and like no one else is there. But hoe do i get him to talk more and get to know me??
call him. and dont listen to what anyone says. just because they tell you it could be a lie and then ounce you get your hopes they will find out the truth and your hopes withh be crushed. you'll feel like shit so dont. you need to talk to him somewhere.
so andrewnator.
its kelly.
you know.
will you go out with me?
i actually know two. which one are you? kelly D. or kelly E.
how do i get a boyfirneddd
depends
I'm the person with where i like the guy and he has a gf and i should just ask like he doesnt have one. yea well like when you say take a risk and stuff..like if i flirt with him what if he doesnt flirt back and like to flirt with him what should i do..what do you guys like??
well maybe he cant tell your flirting. take a risk as in just do it. tell him, talk to him about going out. just do it!
just cause she might like him doesn't mean he likes her back.....------>>>
that was me and well the guy didnt like me and i didnt ask him out but like he likes this slut and they're going out now but like what do i do to get him back ...he is making a bad mistake with this girl she's going to cheat on him and like he always goes for the sluts and like how do i get him back ??
im sorry about that. well tell him what you think will happen. and have your friends talk to him too. because no one likes a slut. other wise.. you could wait. if shes such a slut she will probabley dump him soon. you have to tell him about what hes getting into. make him notice you....
-------->> ok well me again..heres the thing, if i get in the way of them like the only part is is that the slut is my neighbor so like i would have to deal with the rumors at home and skool..but like everyone thinks he likes me but likes her and like he would come up to me and stuff at ice skating on friday a few times just to talk and like it was nice and everyone thot he liked me but then he asked the slut out. But to get in their way in like a non-slutty way.. what do i do??
well.. your going to have to take a risk. i mean what else is there to do? i still think you should tell him and act like he has no gf. but dont be a bitch about it.basicly.. you dont really need me to tell you what to do. all i know that you deffinatly have to do is TAKE A RISK. and you better do it. other wise none of this will work. and its true
There's this guy and like we kind of flirt and today in the only class i have with him, other than lunch, he told me that this one guy likes me and i was like eww and hes like who do you like and i just say um i dont know and smiled and my friend told me to do that. But the only thing is is that whenever i see him hes with his ex that he just dumped cuz she was getting annoying and he says he doesnt like her and stuff but like she is always all up on him. What do you think i should do? Should i ask him out or just lay off of him?
Well i think he likes you. and say deffinatly give it a try. dont worry about the other girl, just cause she might like him doesn't mean he likes her back.....------>>>
that was me and well the guy didnt like me and i didnt ask him out but like he likes this slut and they're going out now but like what do i do to get him back ...he is making a bad mistake with this girl she's going to cheat on him and like he always goes for the sluts and like how do i get him back ??
im sorry about that. well tell him what you think will happen. and have your friends talk to him too. because no one likes a slut. other wise.. you could wait. if shes such a slut she will probabley dump him soon. you have to tell him about what hes getting into. make him notice you. be closer to him and get in the way of his sluty girlfriend. he might realize what your trying to tell him eventually. and you HAVE to tell him you like him!
I was at my softball game, and i saw this guy, i think i might know. And, my bff is close friends with him, and when i see him in the hall, and we smile at each other. I dont know his name, and im not sure who he is, but i want to get to know him..what should i do, to get 2 know him, without making him figure out i like him?
- Lost
Well instead of only smiling say hi or something. maybe aproach him and ask his name. it wouldn't be that hard if you tried. and keep doing it.. except only ask his name once unless you forget it. if you have AIM you could ask for his screen name. talk on there and get to know eachother. i think he might figure something if you call him.. and if you dont have AIM.. i guess try to talk to him in the hall as much as you can. walk together maybe if you are heading the same direction. trying to get to know someone isn't as hard as it may seem. just talk, ask, and listen. good luck
i have asked this to all girls, so i htought i would ask a guy .. but its long and kinda personal so i would rather email it to you .. can i email you instead of asking on here? whats your email?
my email is american_psycho65@hotmail.com
ok well i really like this guy....but he is going out with someone. Me and this guy have gone out before and i regret breaking up with him a lot. i really like this other guy to but i don't think he likes me. I don't know if i should ask one of them out or just be friends with them for now......In Love And Confused
i know your asking for advice so i will try to help, but i think its basicly your decision. you seem to like both. i think you should ask one of them out.. but it might come with trouble if you ask the one thats taken.. so if you were too you would most likely have to wait or you will get a bad title. try the single first. if it doesn't work.. wait a while. maybe even try again if the other is still taken to make sure he hasn't changed his mind. if its again a no of sorts wait for the taken guy, or even secretly talk to him and ask... and if he says yes you could plan something one. a fake break up between him and the other girl without anyone knowing he dumped her for you. and if im confusing you, sorry my heads kinda hurting a little too. but... you have to try. single first. two times. taken one either secretly, broad giving a bad title which i recamend you dont do, or just wait for him. good luck, hope i helped.
When you say be creative about asking out a guy, what would you say?
well for me.. obvioudsly i'd be asking a girl. i dont really know because i havn't done so in a while and either way creative in a way it ties with your life. not mine. but.. i'd tell her/him how i felt about them in a nice way. and the last line would probabley be something like, "so.. could we try this again?" but thats me. think of something for yourself
There's this guy and like we kind of flirt and today in the only class i have with him, other than lunch, he told me that this one guy likes me and i was like eww and hes like who do you like and i just say um i dont know and smiled and my friend told me to do that. But the only thing is is that whenever i see him hes with his ex that he just dumped cuz she was getting annoying and he says he doesnt like her and stuff but like she is always all up on him. What do you think i should do? Should i ask him out or just lay off of him?
Well i think he likes you. and say deffinatly give it a try. dont worry about the other girl, just cause she might like him doesn't mean he likes her back. but when you ask him out, be creative. and dont feel too worried and freak out.
He doesnt notice me, doesnt even seem to see me.he's not blind, but everytime im near him its like im invisible. Iv tried my best to make him love me, but he'll never love me the way i wish he would. Ill die, wishing i was in his arms, he doesnt need me, or love me. I think this is the last chance i have, i wish i was lonely instead of just dodling. So my tears mean nothing, because he'll never see that they are from him...Please help
well i would but i dont see a question in there. if you want me to help either ask me something or talk to me about it online or something.
There is this guy and my friend is like the prettiest girl in skool and like everyone thinks shes pretty, and the guy even like smiled at her this one time when we were walking in together. But like i dont know if he likes me. But i dont think he likes her but like, do you think i should ask him anything or what do you think i should do? the girl tells me that im stupid...in a good way.like not to make me be mad at her or anything..but like since i think that. I know that i have to get to know the guy more but do you think i should ask him out?
Well if you think he might like her, nothing wrong with a nosey friend. you can even get things out of him. unless your a blabber mouth and he knows it.. but anyway, yeah you should get to know him a little better. understand his thoughs.. (what you get him to tell you) and give it a try. but dont just go "will you go out with me?" cause thats lame and boring. i think that line sucks and that you most likely can think of something better on your own. good luck.
hi andrew. i have this problem. you see i have this friend. he is really cool and wacky and haha wow is he insane. ive gone out with him before a couple times and we keep breaking up. and now were not together but i like really like him again. i dont know why but he just makes me feel like im not a retard. im afraid if i tell my friends they'll just be like "Oh, not again!" i mean its weird though because when were together he acts a lil weird but we can still have very romantic conversations. but like when were not together he tells me im like his best friend and im his easiest best friend to talk to and he said he was alone again and is that a sign that he likes me or something? what should i do about my friends?
thanks
sincerly,
{{confused}}
well dont listen to your friends. if they are real friends they will deal with it. so just tell them if you have too. another try with him might be a good thing. it might go further this time. it might even go better. im not so sure if him saying hes alone means that he likes you, but maybe in his own little messed up way it might. maybe you can try to dig further into his feelings. and if he likes you and you like him whats holding you back? GO FOR IT!
i really like this girl(Christina Sameth) but i don't think that she knows i like her. How do i tell her that i like her? I don't know if i should ask her out because all of her other boyfriends don't seem anything like me. should i just be her friend or tell her that i like her more than a friend and i would like to go out with her? If you don't know Christina you don't have to answer this question. bye
well first i do know her. and being different then the others is a good thing. why would she want to date the same dirtbag over and over again? she wouldn't. so be yourself and be different. be friends for a little while... if she doesn't know you try talking to her and stuff. like just walk up to her and say hey. talk to her friends and if you become friends with her friend you can get in to her.. well you could become friends easier. then if u still like her try to tell her. in your OWN way.