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oh okay, this my story i need help on.
last year i dated this guy who is two years older than me, well this guy is VERY inexpereince NO joke, so well anyways it was only a week a lasted because he didnt come up to me at school, which he does to all his girlfriends becuase he doesnt know how to approach a gril GAY i know well anyways, this summer he came over to my cousins and we made out and it was his FIRST ever kiss. GAYER i know, well anyways were talking but the thing is HE LOVES!!!! to talk to other girls to but he doesnt get close to them like that. now i had asked him if i was wasting my time and well yeah im he said so i told him that i was talking to another guy so it wouldnt look like i was heart broken and stupid and now im talking to that guy VERY UNEXPECTANT!! well now im still stuck on it. becuase the very inexpereince boy goes to the gym every morning bc he loves to play basketball and well i have gym 1st period so im there wiht my friends, well anyways he gives me a look like he wants to get back but idkk he so so so so SOOOOOOO EFFIN. confusing, i dont know if i should talk to him again even if he did break my heart. so yeah, and that guy that i didnt think i was going to talk to after he is so sweet, and we are "offcially talking" but i had LOVE and i absoulety LOVED the inexpereince guy for the most longest time and i dont know if im over him. gahhhh I posted a question called a "a year long fling or a year wasted" and well i got my answer when i asked him but he is so confusing.
gahhhh i dont know what to do at ALL!!!!!
Help me out please.
-cheergirl0811 (link)
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oh yeah. I've been here. As a matter of a fact I AM here and just posted a similar question. But I have some advice we should both probably follow.
Look around. You're single! there are TONNNNNNZ of guys just dying for a girl like you that will treat you 10 times better. I know, I don't want to believe it either. And it probably feels like all you will ever want is him. But think about it. I bet you met him pretty easily. Imagine if you put forth a lot of effort to find a guy. IMAGINE what you'd find. I think I'm going to try this next week. You honestly should too.
another thing that should help is try to either just be friends with him, or push him out of your life completely.
I know it hurts. And you still want him to be there, but if you want to move on I suggest it. If not why not try with him again!?
See if it turns out he likes you! You only have one life to live. Don't let teenage break ups keep you from further loving. :)
Hope I helped in the teensy tinyest bit.
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