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I really really like this guy and he is like everythink i ever wanted(cute, can talk to him, and actually has friends...lol)well, he recently broke up with his girlfriend and she was really not "loving" and never was by him when he wanted her to be. well, he knows i like him and when we hang out sometimes he flirts and i think he likes me, but when we r talking online, i have to be the one to say, "hi, whats up," and doesnt seem interrested at all, he only really talks to me when i bring up a good subject, but when i dont have a good conversation starter, words are minimal...and sometimes doesnt resopond to my little questions like, "how r you doing?" I dont wanna sound desperate and be like,"why arent you talking to me? or do you not like me? should i leave you alone?"...things like that...so im asking...should i keep going(if so what should i do)...or let him go and find someone else?

Ughhh, I know how you feel and I HATE that with a passion. My crush of 3 years always used to do that. But honestly, I don't think it's that he's not interested. Some guys are just plain out *boring* online, and sometimes are a little to shy or nervous to talk to you. Now in my experience, I had the same exact problem as you. I'd ask him something and he wouldn't answer. Or I'd IM him, and then we'd talk for like 2 min. then there would be nothing to talk about. My suggestion is limit talking to him online (that's what I did and it kinda worked) maybe call him so you guys can talk one on one. Or just stick to talking to him in person. That's what I did, and it turned out my crush DID like me. Unfortunatly, it was the wrong time and I had already found a girlfriend lol ;)

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