I'm a 19 year old male from Texas. In my arrogant moments I'm dead certain I'm an insightful, intelligent, wise, and caring person. In my modest moments I let other people tell me so and it doesn't get to my head. I would say I've experienced and also observed a lot in my short amount of life, and have a different way of looking at many things which often makes people make a little "Oh" sound when I give advice.
E-mail: Jimmy_Urine_4_president@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: Texas
Age: 19
AIM: Gort The Insane
Yahoo: wherethehellamI_andwhatdayisit
Member Since: February 12, 2004
Answers: 10
Last Update: February 20, 2004
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how do you ask a guy out if you are a shy girl when it comes to asking guys out (or friends out) (link)
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Get some guts and do it. There's nothing else to do but that. You already knew that, though, I think. How to get some guts? You need to not care. That's what has always worked for me. Don't give a fuck what his answer is until after he says it. Treat it like you would some normal everyday question like, "What are you eating for lunch?" Make it a conversation, not a big deal.
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My ex fiencee, Tim, left me two days before my birthday. He left me at the worst time of my life. Since then we haven't talked much...and now he suddenly shows up and tries to apologize. I am so angry with him, but I still love him very very much. I want to hate him...I really do...but I can't. When he left, I started getting my life back into order, although it'd fall apart right after. I have a boyfriend now, but he means next to nothing to me. I don't want to let Tim hurt me again. He'd been my best friend for three years before we started a relationship.
*Alone by nature*
Abby (link)
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Are you asking if you should go back to Tim? Cause if so, my response would be emphatically, definitely, completely no. There's 5,999,999,999 other people on this planet other than him, and they haven't screwed you over yet. Go talk to some of them.
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whatis love? (link)
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Find a dictionary. Open it up.
If you mean for some reason you cannot emotionally or intellectually understand love, well, join the club man. I don't think anybody knows all that much about love, we just play it by ear and hope it sounds right.
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ok i like these 2 guys pumpkin and baby and pumpkin is my friend and baby is sorta my friend type thing like we do stuff after school at school together but dont hang out out side of school you no the drill any way i sent both pumpkin and baby a carnation (its a school thing) for valentines day and the one i sent to pumpkin has my name on it but he just thinks its a friend thing but tis not lol and baby i sent one to him annonomisly and stuff i mean when i am not near pumpkin i just wanna be friends and stuff but when i am talking to him and are next to him i wanna lean in close and just be held by him but i dont wanna kiss him and with baby i like him all the time but when i am near him i dont want to hold him or anything but away from him i do honestly i need real help i am totally confused with my emotions
thank you so much
confession (link)
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Whoa. Take a deep breath. Let it out.
It sounds to me like you're already starting to make a decision here. You make it seem that you like this Pumpkin guy better than you do Baby.
Well, you said you don't hang out with Baby outside of school. Possibly that's why the attraction isn't so strong? You haven't really had any free time with him, just forced proximity to eachother that you learned to live with and enjoy (school). Try going out somewhere with him, not necessarily a date, just something outside the school scene.
As for Pumpkin, if you really have those feelings, TELL HIM. Find a way to get him alone, call him on the phone, whatever, but loose ends never helped anybody. If he doesn't like you back, it's gonna be a little weird at first maybe, but I guarantee you either way you'll be a lot less confused, because you took action about your confusion. I would say don't rehearse it too much, don't try to find some perfect moment, make yourself a good moment and let it come from what you're thinking and feeling.
This is an emotional thing, but don't let your emotions run it, you have to think about yourself and these other people, and what you can do. The answer was obvious, I think, you just wanted an objective person to say it so it didn't sound as bad as it did in your head. ;)
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Do you know of any good sex moves or fun stuff that me and my husband can do in bed? (link)
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There's always roleplaying, where you each have some sort of character you play, dressing up which goes hand-in-hand with roleplaying but can be fun on its own, and for the less faint of heart, there are quite a few fetishes to be explored. Some people find dirty talking or pornography a good way to make the mood sexy fast, and there's plenty of reading, seminars, and god knows what else about improving your sex life. I can't point you to sources, but they're definitely out there if you look.
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