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Hey Yall!!this is stephanie and i want EVERYONE to know that i am here for them! ask me anything and i PROMISE that i will give you a wise answer...i hope i can help!!

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ok...so there is this girl that i like...but shes a freshman and i'm a sophmore....she's in band with me but she has a boyfriend...i really like her and think she is my highschool sweetheart...but i don't even think i have a chance with her...she's great (link)
well...tuff luck i don't think she'll ever go out with a loser like you...

xoxo stephanie


o k ihavents seen ma crush in like 2 months and i used to see him like all th time..what do i do!!u now everythign happenes for a reason well what can the reason be?is it tat we nned to stop liking each other or wat i ned help wat do i do? (link)
ok....plan a little get together with you him and a few of yalls good friends...if the vibe is still there then GO FOR IT GIRL lol well i hope i helped.....

xoxo stephanie


k so ive liked this guy for a while now and at first i thought he liked me too but then he did something that made it very clear he didnt like me but i still really like him and i dont know if i should talk to him about it or not (link)
wow..ive been in that position before....i think that you should talk to him about it...and see where it goes from there!!
HOPE I HELPED!!

xoxo STEPHANIE


ok so i like this crush i got tyred of him not telling me how he feels and he seeems so shy..and i havent seeme him 4 like a month and i wont see him probably till another month..i decided tat i was gonn amove on becasue hes so rude..but ocasisonally i see him stare at me at the movies ....but he told me in the aol tat im wasting my time and i got rereaally major mad ....but i dunt understand why we used to see each other everyweekend at the amll/movies..even tought we never talked...but now we dunt see each other as much /what do u think this means do u think it means tat maybe he will start missing me and tat he will appreciete wat he had now tats gone..cause i kind of moved on..or wat does it mean?should i move on helpp (link)
well...one thing, the internet is NOT a good source with guys i am telling you that much.i think that you should confront him in PERSON and tell him how you are feeling about this and whee is can go from there....i have faith that yall will do fine...hope i helped.

xoxo stephanie


hey what does it mean wen they tell u r insecure? (link)
Main Entry: in·se·cure
Pronunciation: "in-si-'kyur
Function: adjective
Etymology: Medieval Latin insecurus, from Latin in- + securus secure
1 : not confident or sure : UNCERTAIN

hope i helped!!

xoxo stephanie!


i know a gurl and weel we r like only going on dates becuse we live kinda apart but i don t know if she wasnts commit ment we make out and other stuf but hat i f she wants commit ment or wat i f i mess it up (link)
it doesnt matter if yall live apart....it matters if you really love her...i think that you should confront her in person and ask her if she wants a comitted relationship...if yall make out and whatever than yall should have no problem in being in a comitted relationship..hope i helped!!


xoxo STEPHANIE


heyy stephhh!
ok..well like i like this guy..and like a week ago he acted like he liked me like and he acted like he was about 2 ask me out then i went on vacation came back and everything was diff..i was only gone for 4 days.. annd now iv fallen for him..and i feel SO led on and i hate it i really do bekuz its like i could like him and he wouldnt give a #### wat so ever and its like it always happens and i just like i dont know what to do..

lovve.. (link)
you should confront him in person and talk about it...and tell him how you feel in this kind of situation...and if he doesnt unerstand..he is not worth your tears or pain...go on to another guy who actually cares.... hope i helped..

xoxo STEPHANIE


i need help im so comfused .....i liked this guy for like 2 years he acts like he likes me but then he acts so rude and mean and says he doesnt care what i do on the phone..i went out w/this guy tats his friend but i broken up w/him becuse i couldnt stop thinking about the other guy...but ma friends say i need to move on and go bakk out w/ma ex which he does really like me..and then other friends say i shouldnt cause what if the guy i love come to me...so i duntnow wat to do should i move on or stay hucked on the other guy?friends say maybe the other crush might notice me cause ill go out w/his friends but wat if it makes it worst? (link)
i think that you should keep on going out with your ex..because he actually cares about you...i also think that you should forget about the other guy because if he is going to act that way about this....he doesnt deserve such a great girl like you...so move on and i bet you anything that when he sees that youve moved on...he will start liking you and have some kind of jealosy going on...hope i helped

xoxo stephanie









When you have a crush on a guy your always afraid to let go because your scared that when you let go he'll finally catch on


ok so i found out ma crush died her hair like blonish from being a brunett and he look sreally hot ..i dunt now why he didi it..but im scared tat gurls satrt liking him more and he gets a girlfrined i hope i see him this friday and im sad he might ignore me!!!wat should i do do u think hell het to much proud and think hes the best casue he lokks better now.i was planing to say hi this friday and not be tat shy but now i dont now..what should i do..or do u think he idid it to maybe impresse me? (link)
can you restate the question


Hey! I like this guy but he broke up w/ one of my best friends a little while ago and I dunno if that would be mean to like him. sry I'm just very confused lol so i guess just respond back if you have time lol thanks,
Anonymous (link)
ok....i think you should ask your best friend first to see what she feels about this....not ask her permission...ask her if she would be hurt in any way if you ever went out with him or liked him...shell understand...
xoxo stephanie


Ok What should i do?? Ok i like my really good friensd and we went out and now i like him more then i did when we were going out!! hes going out with some new girl and i dont no her!! and the thing that confuses me is that we flirt alot and during art he stills my markers and i when i try to get them back i have to lik tackle him and sometimes we end up face to face were we r going to kiss but i pull back what can i do to get him back??

By the way its Kristen Ambriz from Art and A&E (link)
i think you should talk to him....express your feelings and tell him how you feel....he will understand!!

xoxo stephanie


okk i have this feeling l;ike i feel really close to ma crush ....like a feeling i dunt ussually get liek butterflys in ma stomach like different what do this mean? (link)
i think it just means that you like him alot and that when you think about him and your too scared to talk to him you get butterflies....so i think the longer you wait to tell him you like him...the harder its going to be....so just go up front to him and tell him how you feel!....xoxo i hope i helped


Hey Stephanie! (f.y.i i'm a 14 year old girl)Okay, i've seen you give advice to some of your buds and i wanted to ask you... so i like this guy, a lot, went out with him and broke up... i broke up w. him... and still love the kid to death... he was prolly one of the best things that ever happened to me.. .and i genuinlly care about him... but i broke up with him based on what other people told me.. and now different friends are telling me to go back to him.. and try to "mend the relationship" but what if i just think it's better to have a good, reliable friend that i have a crush on.. as apposed to trying this a second time and commpletely ruining any chances for friendship...?

i mean i was thinkin' about htis quote just a few seconds ago..."... Love like you've never been hurt, and live like there's no tomorow" and i did allow myself to let loose, and love him... for once i let loose and just put myself out on the line... and for some reason i'm not sad... 'cause i feel like i've gained a friend... is somin' wrong with me? (link)
hey!...no there is definately nothing wrong with you!...i think that IF you reallly truly, genuinely love him, and cant live with out him its best to give him another shot..but if you think if you went out with him a second time and yall are the kind of people who if yall break up you never speak again...then i think yall should just keep it up as being really good friends....always remember....you shouldn't listen to what people say to you...you ahould always confront the person first..here are some quotes...i hope i helped you!!!

"I used to find myself longing and waiting for the future to come...now i long and wait for the past to return...."

and

"i love talking about you, because i can never run out of things to say, i never have a bigger smile or louder laugh, and even with everything that i say, im still the only one that understands why I love you."

xoxo stephanie!


ok my crush is on the "'aol'' i reallly want to talk to him bu ti cant because in some ocasions hes been rude but sometimes he wasent ..should i iam him or not?cause im the one always making te first move and im getting tyred of it (link)
well...you should just say hey or whats up first but not like tell him your whole life story before he responds first..dont be too annoying and keep it cool...if you need any more tips you can just ask me for more advice ANYTIME!!

xoxo hope i helped a little


ok so i like this guy but his in high shhool we arent tat good friends att we see each other and say hi and talk ...hes my crush tat i dunt talkt o cause im nervouse and he seems tat way..i like him a lott and i dunt hink nuthign but him in skol.. but should i like hjim cause i only see him on the weekends and im woried tat he has a crush on other girl and i dont even no how he acts w/other girls in skol..i havent seen him w/a girlfriend or gurls wen i see him on the weekends wat should i do..like he seems he likes me wen hes around ma friemds say he likes me cause they see how he stares at me and acts around me.but i dunt now why would he pick me!!if hes in high =skol and could meet other girls better than me..the thing is i m not interested in any of the ghuys in ma skool only HIM..helpp (link)
RELAX...and calm yourself..i think that you should just talk to him in person....with no people around..and tell him how you feel about him, it seems to me that he likes YOU for who you are instead of the girls that are in high school with him..i have faith that yall will work it out someway or another so you both will be happy!! hope i helped.

xoxoSTEPHANIE


ok so i reall y like this guy but everime he seems me hes like''i dunt like u '' stop talking to me..and im like ''boy i dunt like you''buit i really do in the inside and hes always rude to me...what do i do should i stop liking him or wat? (link)
hunny...if he talks to you like that you SHOULDN'T like him!! you dont need his in your life is he is going to act immature!...dont worry, there are plenty of guys out there for you!!xoxo GOOD LUCK!


i really like this guy at the beggining he likes me and he asked me out buit i said no thne latar in life it all wen t backwaords i liked him but apparently he tought different now ..i lerned tat u appreciate wat u have but we there gone now he moved away really far but ill alwyas have him in my heart wat should i do? (link)
im sorry to tell you this...but hunny i think you lost him for good! those are a one in a lifetime oppurtunities that you have to take! but dont worry there are plenty of other fish in the sea and one is bound to like you!!

xoxo STEPHANIE


ok so ma crush seemes like were really crush to huick up we just need to talk but i got a haircut and im scared wat hes gonn asay should i be scared? (link)
dont be scared! appearance means nothing..its the inside that they look at!

xoxo STEPHANIE


ok well this gusy i really like he tell people different stuff he tell me nothing he tells my gilfriend he dont like me and he tell his guy friends he does ...whats wrong w/him does he know wat he wat?wat should i do (link)
go up to him and ask him yourself...he is bound to tell the truth!!

xoxo $tEpH@n!E


the guy i like its really shy well wen hes by me... not wen his w/his friends why does he change?........but i act the same way towards him like will look down at the floor we we see each other and everywre i go he seems to be there is it atat were starting to have a cruch on each other
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hunny....that is called a crush!!

xoxo STEPHANIE!!




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