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Im 14.. I broke up with my boyfriend about a month ago.. He wasnt one of the boyfriends that I actualy could see being with for a long time so I guess I was just going out with him cause I liked him..

Now.. For some reason I just really want a boyfriend. How do I get a guy to like me? what can I do to get a boyfriend or a guy that might want to date me?

I know this probly sounds greaty or selfish or stupid.. But I really want a boyfriend. I like a guy that Im afraid will never like me back.. so im trying to find someone else.. can you help me..


please..
- maddie

My friend is going through this exact same thing right now..well nobody really NEEDS a boyfriend..you just really want one, right? I don't know why that always happens..when you have one you dont want one, but when you dont you really do. anyways, you could try finding someone that likes you back or just see if that guy likes you? Also, you can try focusing on other things..hang out with your friends a lot or something..i dont know, anything to take you mind off it. anyways, hope i helped, good luck!

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welp, im going to ask this really hott guy out tomorrow and im so nervous...but i kno this isnt a question but i just wanted to tell people, wish me luck. *if we do start a relationship, our annaversery will be June 2nd! lol) WISH ME LUCK! i dunno why, but whoever wishes me luck, will get a rating of 5. :)

good luck!

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okay i have a b/f now well call him "K" okay well we've been goin out for a lil while but i wanna call him but im afraid his mom or something is gonna answer what do i do/?

lol i was the same way! just call, ask for him and if hes not there say thanks and hang up! You'll be fine, don't worry and if you really don't want to, then ask him to call you or ask him to answer it if you call (if he has caller ID) well hope i helped! **x0x0x

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i broke up with my bf like 1 year ago and now he goes to my skool and I like him so what should I do ????

find out if he likes you and then tell him how you feel, or just tell him how you feel first or something...maybe he still likes you! :) hope i helped **x0x0x

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well me and my boyfriend usually chill w. a group of our friends and one of those people liked him but not anymore..i think .. now yesterday i was w. them and me and him were sharing a banket watchin the movie and she looked up with the rudest look ive ever seen!! i really feel uncomfy w. her w. me and him .. idk why shes one f my good friends too. i feel like better that shes jealous ..... ?
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PS. when you hold hands .. do they usually get sweaty? lol

You should talk to her and find out. maybe tell your boyfriend. Maybe she isn't jealous, she just looked up that way, but if she is then you probably shouldn't hang out with her and him all the time..hopefully she won't ruin anything between you 2. Even if she is jealous though..because if she likes him still she probably is..don't let it bother you too much unless she starts to act a lot different or something. hope i helped :) **x0x0

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ok theres this guy i really liek and were really good friends. but he doesnt like me relatioship wise, i dont know if i should move on or not because i am going no with this. please hgive me some advice i dont know what to anymore.

Maybe he just doesn't want to ruin your friendship..but it sounds like he doesn't like you that way so you should probably try getting over him..it might be hard though if you guys are really good friends. Try telling him how you feel and make sure he really doesn't like you like that..hope i helped :) **x0x0

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Okay, I was at this party last night and it was with a bunch of my guyfriends/friends. The thing is, my boyfriend was with me. These two guyfriends of mine are particularly touchy-feely types, and they like to pick me up and toss me around and all that...I'm small, lol. This one guy, Aaron, dipped me back like he was about to kiss me, and my boyfriend was glaring daggers at him. He was doing that to both Aaron and Kevin through the whole night. He already doesn't like Kevin because he's my ex, but I think he dislikes him more now. My boyfriend isn't usually the jealous type. I talked to both guys and told them to lay off with the touching me, and I told my boy that it doesn't mean a thing, that they're just my friends and they've always done that to me, but I don't think it helped.
Okay, basically, what I'm asking is, is there anything I can tell him besides what I've already said to make my boyfriend stop with the jealousy?

Your boyfriend is probably always going to be kind of mad over it since you are his girlfriend. But make sure he knows that it means nothing at all and you should probably get them to stop touching you as much.. Hope i helpd **x0x0

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hey i just got a boyfriend 4 the first time and im nervous he wants to go out to the movies with me and my friend dared me to kiss him before we went but i said no. He hasnt talk to me in a week and im worried. I like him and hes a good friend but should i break up with him? I dont wont to hurt him because i know ill pay for it later hes one of my close friends out of school. I GIVE ANYONE WHO HELPS a 5 rate.

love sucks

You don't have to kiss him. Just say no, like you did. Since you guys are friends you should talk to him-you don't have to wait for him to talk to you. If he hasn't talked to you in a week, then howd you know he wants to go to a movie? sorry. You shouldn't dump him, just talk to him and if things don't work out then dump him by saying you don't want to ruin your friendship or something. Hope i helped **x0x0

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You see, the guys at my school are pretty hot but they have really bad personalities and that is why i do not wanna ask anyone of them out. And next year, i'm going 2 an all girls school so i wont meet any guys. I cant go 2 dances cus i 4got 2 turn in my permission slip and besides, my parents wont let me. And i also cannot meet anyone new on the internet. So how do i meet any new hot guys 2 go out with?

Hey, that kinda sucks. Sorry. Maybe if you hang out with some of the hot guys at your school you'll find one that has a good personality? You don't have to go out with only hot guys either. If they have a good personality thats good. but you can go to the mall with your friends or to movies or anything. Lots of hot guys hang out there ;) good luck! x0x0

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my b/f always hangs out with his frinds and not me when hes the one sayin lets do somethinn!..when i call him hes like well call me when u know what your doin then we neva get to see eachother that night or w/e.. when he knows i get mad hes always like im sorry i love you but then he does it again...i still reallyyy like him alot and i think if i dump him ill regret it but idno what to do

you should talk to him about it and if it keeps on happeneing then you should probably just dump him. You don't deserve that and if he's a good boyfriend and he really loves you like he says then he will listen to you and try to change it. hope i helped :)

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heres the advice u gave me:Whether you break up with your boyfriend or not..if he likes you and hes ur ex then you should NOT go out with his brother. even if he says that its okay its more then likely not and they will probably like hate eachother. sorry :-/ but its good your boyfriend was honest with you.. hope i helped :)

i kno wat ur sayen..but wen me nd lets say "S" is my boi fren and "j" is his brother..well me nd "s" we goen out..he told me 2 make out wit hisz brother "j"..nd like i shuld be tellen this..well ive like "j" for the longest time so after i thought about it 4 like a hour i finally said yeh..dont think im like a hoe..and then "s" was fine with it and even thought it was a go0d thing if u kno wat im sayen..nd he stil liked me..but i think josh is cuter nd a better boyfriend type..cuz me and "s" have went out 4 like 2 months nd never even kissed..nd its bad i even kissed his brother nd not himif u kno wat i meen..so do u think i shuld go with his brother ? plz help!!

Okay i think i understood that.. so you made out with "j" and "s" told you to? then maybe you should just go out with his brother if you really like him but just remember that "s" might still be mad if he likes you and if it starts to hurt them and make them like hate eachother or anything then break up with him.. it may be hard but itll probably be for the better. hope i helped if you need anything else just leave one in my inbox :) good luck **x0x0

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me and this boy have been going out for almost two months..i really like him but he has cheated on me..but he was honest and told me..i also like his brother which likes me too..i dont know if me and my boyfriend should breake up and i should go with his brother or stay with him..can you help me?

Whether you break up with your boyfriend or not..if he likes you and hes ur ex then you should NOT go out with his brother. even if he says that its okay its more then likely not and they will probably like hate eachother. sorry :-/ but its good your boyfriend was honest with you.. hope i helped :)

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