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im 15 and im a tomboy and i heard this boy...lets call him DF wants to ask me out i have never been asked out before and i have never liked a boy before and i dont want to be mean and say no but i dont want to go out on a date with him what should i do and thank you to whoever takes the time to answer this thanks alot PPPEEEAAACCCEEE OOOUUUTTT (link)
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Tomboys are awesome (I used to be one)
Best to tell him the truth. There was a guy who had a crush on me, but I tried to avoid tellin' him I didn't like him, and he like "stalked me" for 2 months. When I finally did, it was all over. He got over it and he moved on.
People hate it when you lead them on.
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I'm dating this guy and we've been together for about 2 weeks but known eachother for a long time. We had sex and we talk a lot. We've told eachother we loved eachother, but he never calls me anything sweet like baby or etc. Does that mean he doesn't really love me all to much??
SOrry if its long. (link)
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I think baby/sweetie is overrated! He doesn't have to be stereotypical "lovey-dovey" boy, it's kind of a guy thing. Life isn't a romance novel, don't live by those standards, make your own!
Make your own pet name. Me any my bf call each other "Muffin" but we only started using that 5 months into our relationship, no worries.
If you're still concerned, you should talk to your guy about it. Just tell them that you would like it if he gave you a pet name, sometimes boys just don't know these things.
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13/f
From your guys's/girl's point of view, how do you tell if its really LOVE you feel or just REALLY REALLY Like?
Like, how do I know the difference coz i'm curious.. and curious when and how to say "i love you" and how do I/you know that i MEAN it? (link)
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You're 13, and it may be mean, but sometimes you really can be too young. Take careful consideration in your actions.
I think if you really love someone, that you would do anything for them, be able to argue with them and make up in a understanding way and just about do anything with them. You accept their flaws...heck you think that their "flaws" are perfect! Also make sure that the person cares about you back before saying "ILU", and that s/he will do the same for you.
I think drama is the test whether a relationship is strong. If you guys been through a lot of crap, and you're still going strong, then thats when you know that you know that a relationship will last. If everything has been lovey-dovey, you may want to wait for a bit and see what will happen when some drama comes about, how you two will deal with it. Gl!
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