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Umm... Hmmm.. Well, there's not much about me.. I'm a regular high school girl that just wants to be left alone by snotty brats that think they can do anything in the world and get away with it. You know what? Life isn't about getting about with shit.. its about responsibility and knowing how far you can go. It's about punishment and not being able to do all the things you want to do. Life is unfair, yea.. i know..but there is nothing you can do about it.. And that is what i have learned over the years.. Not many girls OR guys my age understand that. Hell, my sister still doesnt know what responsibility is and shes 5 years older than me and in college. =(
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This chick really likes my boyfriend. She texts him all the time.. which interrupts our time together sometimes. The thing is, he pays for all the texts. Incoming and whatnot. So she's flooding his phone. Blah blah. She gets mad whenever he says he busy or that he's with me ["his girl"]

She keeps sending messages about sex, getting drunk, and bjs. She just won't stop. She knows he's taken and that he's busy.

Advice? He's getting really annoyed and she's not taking a hint.

And here's my problem.

My new friend already likes me. He wants something more and he's like.. waiting for my relationship to fail. He's been "joking" or whatever about kissing me and making out. He's really sweet, believe me. But I'm really happy right now and I don't want to hang out with him.. to lead him on. He called me so many times in one day and now he's wanting for me to call him to hang out. I honestly don't want to hang out with him. It's so awkward and I don't trust him. During my finals, he walked me to all my classes and kissed my head, then later that day my cheek. :| Yeah, my boyfriend does not like that. He doesn't go to my school so he can't "Take care" of my friend. He already said sorry but he's annoying me with the constant "HANG OUT WITH ME" "ARE YOU BUSY TODAY" "CALL ME!" "CAN I HAVE YOUR NUMBER"

i have a really kind heart and i can't seem to let him down. any advice for me? (link)
Hmm.. what i'd do if i were your bf would be to either A. block the number, or B. call the cops. She is harrassing him, so they could probably do something about it. or your boyfriend could just tell her to leave him alone and what not.

About your friend situation, im like that too, but you have to talk to him, tell him to cut it out. It may be hard, but you should really tell him to leave you alone for a while, that you don't like him like that. You should tell him how you feel about the whole situation.

I hope this helps you a little bit.




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