Hey! My name is Sarah and this year I'm a freshman @ Stafford High Schoool! GO INDIANS!
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Gender: Female
Location: Virginia
Occupation: Student @ Stafford High School!
Age: 14
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Member Since: August 6, 2004
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My friend (alex) likes this guy matt. Well there on the same sports team, and they are somewhat friends, but alex likes matt. She wants to take it to the next level (going out) but is kinda of nervous about getting his number. I dont know what to tell her so i figured id ask a complete stranger. Please help my friend, she really desirves a nice guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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ok, first i would make sure they are friends..cause u dont want it to be awkward if she asks.. tell her not to be nervous about getting his number..he's JUST a guy! and if she is that worried about it have a friend give him her number! that way she doesnt have to face the rejection if it happens * Sarah *
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For the age and gender thing i'm 16/f
ok...theres this guy i like and he seems to like me but i think he's too shy to admit it...he smiles at me alot and i have been starting to notice him staring at me..but whenever someone asks him if he likes me he says something like i never said i do like her but i never said i don't like her...i have thought about just keep talking to him to see how it goes and try to show him i like him and wait for him to ask me out...or should i just straight out ask him out myself? (link)
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i would flirt with him a lot and be sure he likes you... after ur sure you should DEFINITELY ask him out! Another thing you could do is talk to one of HIS friends and have them bring up something about you like 'She is really nice, you guys would be a good couple' and see what he says.. *Sarah*
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Hey, I'm kind of confused... well anyways, my friend (shes a girl), we were hanging out with some other people and trick or treating and stuff, and then like my other friend is just like... "You are a lucky man" and then im just like why? and then he said "Because someone likes you" and I knew he ment my friend lets call her R from now on, but yeah and he then said "You are good, but she says you are short and too young" (where as im 14, shes 16.) So I was just like... "oh.. ok.." well you see I really like this girl.. but I'm too shy to make the first move. What can I do? (14/m) (link)
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Ok.. if she were worth liking then she wont care about the age or that ur short! try hanging out with her more like one on one. not necessarily a date but 'as friends' .. be sure and flatter her a lot ( we love that lol ) and yeah i bet it would work! * sarah *
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I'm 15/f. Ok, so my sister recently had her Bat Mitzvah and a ton of family cane up. So this one family, who is related because their mom is my mom's cousin, and their dad is my dad's friend (before they were married), and their kids are my 3rd cousins. Well they have two kids, one whho is my age and didn't come to the Bat Mitzvah, and one who is 13, 8th grade. So this kid came over to our house after the party with a ton of my other friends, and we all had a blast. The problem, what if i like him? I don't want to because many people will find it gross. I know it's not incest because sometimes first cousins don't even count as incest. Also the fact that he is two years younger. Some people find that really wrong. The next time I'm going to see him is at his Bar Mitzvah at the end of November. I don't know what to do. We had a great time together, and my friend wanted us to "hook-up." But I don't think he hates me, i think he thinks I'm kind of cool. When we were surfing vodeo clips he kept saying, "I think you'll like this one" I mean, if feels like he would be perfect if he was my age and not my 3rd cousin. Are these feelings gross or weird? What should I do? please help. I'll rate. Sorry it's so long. (link)
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Hmm.. thats kinda tough.. usually i'd say age doesnt really matter unless its like a HUGE age diff. or w/e but yeah the fact that he is your third cousin makes it weird.. i know this probably wont happen but what if you got married! what would ur family think.. just try thinking about those things.. maybe you can ask him if he has any friends that might be good with you.. so yeah i say just be friends * Sarah *
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me n this guy like eachother...but hes moving far away at the end of the year...my friends are mad at me cuz im spending a lot w/ him...wat should i do? (link)
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I would keep spending time with him! if they are THAT good of friends they would understand that you really like him! You could also do things like with everyone together.. go to the movies or bowling or something! maybe your friends will end up seeing the things you see in him.. they might understand a little better.. *Sarah*
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I have this guy that I liked about 2 years ago and he found out about it. Now, I don't like him like that (AT ALL!!!) How do I let him down easy, because I just broke up with a long time boyfriend and I know that he's about to ask me out. He got mad and said REALLY loud how I told him that I liked him when I mentioned that I didn't like anyone at the moment. THANKS! (link)
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Just tell him that over time you've realized you two are better as friends..and that you wouldnt want to jepordize the relationship you already have.. or tell him you still havent gotten over your last bf.. *Sarah*
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