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I have lived through the good times and the bad times. I am a very bright kid, and I know a lot of stuff that other kids may not know about because I've already experienced it. There are no DUMB questions....Only DUMB people for not asking!!
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Well, I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boys like me. My friend, Zoe, has like all the boyz crowding around her and she gets everything she wants. She is real nice and I really like her, but it gets on my nerves when I hear that another boy likes her. And boyz like her just becuz she is pretty and that really pisses me off. I hate that no boys like me just becuz I have glasses! What do I do to get guyz to like me?
I really don't think that glasses have anything to do with it. I think girls (not all) :) look good in glasses. Well, this all depends on what kind of frames you have....not like the old "big" frames that grandma wears....he he he. Anyhow, I think the underlying problem is that you are comparing yourself to your friend Zoe. Now if Zoe is as pretty as you say she is, then of course all the guys are going to like her. In school, haven't you noticed that most of the guys all talk about the "pretty girl"? If you want guys to like you, just let them know. Don't beat around the bush and drop little hints, expecting them to get the point. Guys don't get it unless you put it in their face. :) The reason why no boys are talking to you is because you are hanging around with Zoe. And I'm not saying that you should not be her friend, all I'm saying is that if you want one of them to like you, just let them know that you like them. It's as simple as that. Don't fear rejection, because all guys fear it too. Trust me, I have had my fair share :). There is one thing that you should watch out for though. Be sure that the guy that you like isn't the same guy that Zoe likes. Otherwise the two of you are in for some frendship problems. Tell Zoe your concerns also if she is as good of a friend as you think she is, she'll understand. I like girls with glasses. I don't think this is the problem!! Good Luck!
theres this guy, my boyfriend. sometimes i feel like i like him and other times i feel like i dont. he is crazy over me. i feel like i want to dump him but i dont want him to be upset. (this guy also gave me chocolate 4 no reason and we have been going out for about 3 weeks) i need help!!!!! il give 5's and feedback to the first 4 good answers i get! PLZ HELP!!!!
Here is my suggestion. To truly find out if he likes you, send in a spy. Have one of your really good girlfriends to go in and ask him stuff about you. Do this when you are not around, because if he sees you around, he'll know what you are up to. Next, try talking with him when your friends nor his friends are around. You can really tell the true character of a person when their "friends" aren't around. He may seem nuts, but is he putting on a show for his boys? So he gave you chocolate?...so what? take the chocolate to your friends and share it... it was free right? Don't be weirded out by stuff like that. When you get older and wiser, you'll welcome the chocolates and the flowers. Stay strong and work on finding out his "true" motives.