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Q: I am going on my first date with a wonderful guy soon and I want to know what to expect. I want to make a good impression on our first date together, which may involve kissing. I'm not really sure about some things regarding the appropriate time to kiss on a date.

Should I kiss a guy at the end of our first date if it went well or should I wait a few dates? What is appropriate? I don't want to come off as pushy or easy, and I want to make sure chemistry is there on his side too without asking him. How will I know it's the right time to kiss on a date?
You will definetley know when its the right time. Just wait and see what happens. Personal experience, wait till yall are laughing, having an awesome time, then just lean over for a kiss on the cheek. Never kiss on the lips on the first date unless its at the end. It *could* go well, but then theres a chance it could ruin things. But at the end of the first date, if you had a good time, go for it. I guarentee you he won't complain :]

Good Luck!

-Taylor-

Q: I am from Nigeria, and am 25years old.i have been seeing this guy for 4 years now but the problem is she does not want us to get married simply because she does not like my parents religion.but i attend the same church wit my boyfriend so i dont see a problem with that.i am really confused because my boyfriend is really close to his mum.what do i do now?
Well I don't see what the problem is seeing how you attend the same church as him either. But regardless, she shouldn't disagree with yalls choice to get married because of your parents religion. BUT, theres not much you can do. Sorry to say, but you just have to sit back and let things run their course. Although your boyfriend is close to his mom, if he has seen you for four years, I doubt he will decide to call things off for something his mom disagrees with. But all you can do, is wait, and see how things turn out.

Good luck with every! :]

-Taylor-

Q: well see there is this one guy. we dont date and his name is bradley white. he goes to huntsville middle and i go to chapman middle, and he live down the street from me. like we have dated 3 times and i want to make it a 4th. everytime we touch and everytime we talk i just want it to last. i never want to loose him. well like this guy im dating named seth he dumped mehh like a week ago, bc his frends told him i was using him and cheating on him and i wasnt. they told mehh the same thing just to break us up. but then after school he came to my house and around 4 asked mehh bak out well bradley was ther hangin out with mehh and he told my sister and step sister he was gonna ask me out well seth asked me out and i said yeh to him bc i didnt no bradley was asking me out. and if i new bradley was asking me out i would of said yes to him instead of seth. well now we hang out (me and bradley) and i just dont wnna loose him i like seth alot and i wnna date him but i wanna be bradleys gf again. im scared if i dump seth for bradley ill never have him again. but im scared if i dont hurry up and take bradley bak then ill loose him and again i never wanna loose him.
Well you obviously can't have both. You say you want both, and well which one do you like better?? Me personally, I would go with Bradley, because any guy who breaks up with you for something your friends said, is messed up in the head. From personal experiences, later on down the road, any guy that will believe friends over girlfriend will cause problems in a relationship. But like others have said, this one is entirely up to you, based on your past experiences with them. Just ask yourself, whose been there for you through thick/thin, who do you trust more, whose company do you enjoy more, etc. That should answer your own question for you :P

Hope everything goes well!

-Taylor-

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Ok so I'm Taylor, and I love to give advice, (obviously). I'm always on here multiple times a day. I hate judgemental people, and labels (emo, prep, etc.) I support gay rights, as well as animal rights. I have a wonderful boyfriend, and he means the world to me. I love meeting new people, and listening to music. Rock music is deff. the best!. For a 14 year old I am a very mature, knowledgeable person, and seeing how I have been through a lot, I can relate to a lot of people on here. I have a rocky past, but my future is looking brighter and brighter every day. Anything you wanna ask, or say, lemme know :]

-Taylor-

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