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i like these two guys they r awesome but now i have to choose and i dont kno what to do. one lives in the same city i do and the other one lives 1 hour away. they are both super sweet to me and i can talk to both of them about anything. i dont kno what to do im so confused. please help me with my love triangle oh yes and they both like me wich makes it even harder because no matter what im going to break someones heart and im not good with that. please help me.

Well, that's a personal choice on which one to choose but do not lead someone on because that will only make it worse...let em' down easy!!

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Haha just wanna make something clear..When you make out, do you basically kiss with your mouth more open and move your tongue around? I mean do you just like do the wave with it haha, or do you like go side to side..soo confused haha, let me know

It'll all come naturally...there's no "rules" on how to and how not to! =)

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Hey you guys,
My boyfriend, Jesse, is in California to see his sister. He's supposed to be gone for (9) days, and so far there is (6) more days til he gets back. I wanna do something special for him when he comes back. But what? If you have any ideas, do share! Thx!
*Much love, Stay true*
~*~Missc~*~

Go out to dinner, rent a few movies that you know are his favorites, snuggle up together..just spend a lil' quality time with him..=)

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I apologize in advance because this is going to be pretty long. I'm a sixteen year old girl and I've been single my entire life up until now. I met this great guy at work, and we both liked each other. Our first date was absolutely perfect. It was more of a date to make things official seeing as we already knew a lot about each other. He gave me a red rose, we held hands in the mall, cuddled in the movies, and he kissed me goodnight in the rain. It was perfect. With this being my first relationship ever, I'm freaking out. I know you're not supposed to kiss on the first date, and I wasn't exactly ready for it either. I know that in a relationship, a guy is going to want something "more" than what I'm willing to give. My morals are that I don't want to go past kissing wiht a guy until I'm married. I'm not ready for anything sexual...I'm only 16! Everyone has told me that before you love someone else, you have to love yourself. That could be an issue with me, since I'm full of self-loathing and I have no self-esteem. I can't understand how a guy would pick me in the first place. My internal conflicts are seriously creating a huge dilemma for me and I don't know what to do anymore. This guy made me so happy at first. I could not stop talking about him and I was so happy for once in my life. But now that things are moving faster, I'm freaking out and instead of smiling all the time, I cry. I don't want to give up something like this...what I've longed for my entire life. At the same time, I can't just ignore my issues. I need help. Please tell me what to do. :'( Thank you so much.

wow! that 1st date seems so romantic..kissin in the rain is awesom but yeah love doesn't have any true written out "rules" to how things are supposed to go and no one said you HAVE to give more than what you want to. talk with this guy and let him know up front that you have morals that you would really like to stick to. if he is right for you and respects you then he should understand this and be reasonable about this subject, no reason to cry over this babe!

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I know there have been alot of kiss questions lately so I'm sorry if this has been asked before. When my boyfriend & I are kissing, we don't use any tongue & I think that's because we haven't been dating for long & we're just getting used to eachother. Is there anything we can do to make the kisses more exciting without tongue?

Thanks,
Elle

♥ what is a kiss without some tongue?

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*Hey Tara* I was wanting to ask you a couple of questions. #1- How long should you wait to have sex, I have been dating the same guy for 5 months. #2-My mom knows everything me and my boyfriend has done... she said she can tell what we have done because I have been actin differnt, do you think that is true, or did she listen on the phone or something? #3-Is jackin a guy off nasty or is it very enjoyable? #4-When ever the guy cums on you from jackin him off...how should I react!! If you could plz help me I would greatly appericate it. =) Thank's!

Okay, let's get started with some answers for you..

#1- This is a personal choice you have to make on your own but I will tell you that you need to make sure that sex isn't the only one thing that your boyfriend is with you for. Sure it is nice in a relationship but it's not something that you and your body should be "used" for. Another thing, ask yourself "am I ready for this and any consequences that may follow with this choice"

#2- They always say "mama's know" but you may be acting a lil more "reserved" and keeping to yourself more lately if you are trying to hide something from your mom such as anything you and your boyfriend have done "sexually"

#3- Well, the mess is the "nasty" of it but guys say that it's the next best feeling in the world to oral sex, it's very very very enjoyable for the guy though and the girls...well, ummm the enjoyable part for us is to see our boyfriends pleased! haha!

#4- Hmmm..how should you react? Don't yell "eww, that's nasty" or "GGRROOSS!" haha...be calm, it's not going to kill you, trust me! Just wipe it off on something or if you can wash your hands (which is something you would want to do anyways! =)


=) you are welcome!

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