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Hey my name is Erica (sirra) im 15, wiccan, and i live in NY. i have a wonderful bf named wes, and if u have realationship ?'s (im best at thoses) I regestered to this because i love to help people! If u have ne problms, just send em my way!
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Location: NY
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
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Member Since: May 22, 2005
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i need some help here..well okay i love my boyfriend to death and we`ve been dating for a little over 7 months. and we just started doing things sexually because i dont know before i didnt feel comfortable but now it's like everytime we are together he wants to do more than just hang out it is always revolved around "doing stuff" and that isnt what i like. Why is he doing this? Is it just a guy thing or what? and should i talk to him about it because when i dont give him any i feel like he`s mad at me like until i get to see him again. even tho he says he`s not. And i`m sorry this is so long, thanks for everyone who reads this, please help me! (link)
Def. talk to him... he may think u like it, and u need to state that your relationship has turned to lust. If he doesnt understand, maybe hes in this for the wrong reasons...


okay; here we go. i have been dating this guy *Q for about nine months now. We tend to disagree constantly. He hates when i am by my friends or talks to another guy. My friends view him as controlling, and over-protective; which i am starting to see. It is just so hard for me to end it. I was thinking of writing a note to him, because i'd get too emotion on the phone or in person. &&__ how he is he'd try to change my mind into staying together. but i really don't want that, i have just been scared to admit it. {{sorry if this sounds wordy, its really hard to explain}} I just would appreciate it if you guys had any ideas to make the breakup note not soo mean, but to the point where he gets the idea. any ideas would be great :-D

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i have a few suggestions.

1. You can actually show his this letter to see his reaction, and if he changes for you. He may not realize how "controlling" he is and thinks he just being a good protective BF.

2.Sit him down and tell him everything on your mind.

3.Drop hints that he is bothering you.

4 Play his part, be over protective, and possevive, see how he likes it!




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