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to make a long story very short, a guy named mike has liked me since 7th grade...and i was never interested, persay, now, i like him, and i know he likes me, but hes so shy! everygirl hes dated or liked he never made a move on. tomoro well both be at this haloween party- the parents wont be home and i really want him to open up to me.. talk to me... and if i need to make a move, i will... how do i make a move ona guy? and how can i make him open up and talk to me? (link)
If you really want him to open up, start with small things, like whatever he's really interested in. From there you can either move on to more serious things and make a few flirty comments or you can keep conversation light and pray that he'll make the first move. However, if he really is super shy then I personally suggest moving on and being flirty. If you're shy too, just be yourself and maybe bat your eyes a little, but not so much someone asks if something's wrong with your eye. If you're bolder than that make skin contact, not a lot, just some. Make sure that's it absoutely obvious that you like him, if he doesn't get the hint, go gossip with his friends. Find out what he thinks about you, if he still likes you. If he still doesn't get the hint, go for it and ask him out, if he says "yes" (which he probably will, if he's liked you since 7th grade) then maybe talk to him a little about this whole shy thing. If he says "no" than grab your best girl friend and ice-cream. Spend the night curled up on your bed talking and eating the good stuff out of the carton. It helps, a LOT.




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