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what and how is a easy way to die quick without pain if u wont tell me sumbody else will
Whoa ! Please take a deep breath, and think about what your saying. You don't want to take your life. No matter what you go through in life, there's always a way to fix it. The same way you don't have the right to take anyone elses life, you don't have the right to take your own.. God decides that, not you. I would love to help you, and I'm sure a lot of others would too.. What is making you feel this way?
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my boyfriend of 10 months broke up with me 2 weeks ago. he broke up with me when i was drunk, we got back together the next day and then he broke up with me again 2 days later saying that everything was 'weird'. he broke up with me because i said stupid stuff when i was drunk like that i wanted to be single and other stuff that i didn't mean. anyways, we've been talking a little and he told me he misses me but he doesn't wanna get back together but he's giving me really mixed signals and i think he's still hurt. the last (and pretty much only other time) we broke up it was because he broke up with me when i was drunk and i kissed some random guy at a bar because i was so pissed. he never forgave me for that and he told me that after that he started taking all of the dumb stuff i said about wanting to be single seriously. he says if we ever got back together he would be worried i would cheat on him. he says his feelings for me will never be the same but i don't believe that. i think he's just hurt because he keeps sending me really mixed signals. my question is how i can gain his trust back. i already haven't drank since we broke up (i had been drinking maybe 3 nights a week this summer) and i haven't hooked up with anyone else. i just need to figure out a way to show him i ONLY wanna be with him. because that is truly 100% how i feel. thanks
It's crazy because my best friend actually just went through the same situation. Drinking can make you do silly things, and well its a lesson to be learned here. You don't have to stop drinking, just don't drink as much to the point where you can't control yourself or what you say. My advice to you is take this a step at a time, tell him that you want to start over. Go on a date to the movies, or out for pizza, something fun, talk about everything like if it was your very first date. Make him remember why he fell in love with you in the first place. Prove to him that he is the only one you want in your life, despite everything you went through. He is hurt from the first time, and now a second time. Learn from your mistakes, and if you really want this to work, it will take a lot of patience and effort. Trust me is it worth it. don't give up. I hope i helped girl !
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