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I AM 23 YEARS OLD. MANY PEOPLE COME TO ME FOR ADVICE. I GUESS U CAN SAY I AM WELL TRUSTED. I AM IN NO WAY SHAPE OR FORM "PERFECT"... TRUST, WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES BUT I BELIEVE EVERYTHING IS FIXABLE.
I DON'T BELIEVE THERE IS A SUCH THING AS A STUPID QUESTION, BUT...
YOU GIVE ME BULLSHIT, I WILL THROW IT BACK AT YOU.
IF YOU HAVE GENUINE CONCERN, YOU WILL GET AN HONEST AND WELL THOUGHT ANSWER.
IT DOESNT GET ANY REALER THAN THIS!!
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I have a girlfriend that I have been going out with for 14 months. She lives 2 hours away and I see her almost every weekend- I either take her back to my house or I stay at her house for the weekend. Things have typically gone fine until about two months ago. We have fought more and more. I am friends with my ex's uncle, and this bothers her tremendously. However, me and him are good friends and I am not planning on stopping hanging out with him because he is an awesome guy and in some ways my idol. Anything that has to do with my ex girlfriend, my girlfriend is totally against it, even though I am totally over avoiding my ex and we have even somewhat become friends. My current girlfriend and I started going out approximately three weeks after my last relationship, which lasted 10 months and was my first love- quite a painful experience although I am over it and I feel like it taught me a lot. I am just not sure what to do about this whole situation. I feel like I am growing more distant from my current girlfriend the less time I spend with her, and I feel like I want to experience other women someday, and I feel like there are some things I need to explore and do on my own while I am single, while I can. I know she loves me like crazy and I love her too- I don't know if I want to lose her forever. I am only 20 though and I know I have my whole life ahead of me. Would someone please give me some insight on this?
You just answered your own question. you said you feel like seeing other women, so do what you feel. obviously all of your heart is not into your girl friend, otherwise you wouldnt be feeling that way. Dont make excuses and say its because you are young, love has no age, it is just what you want to do. Its time to break up with her. Yes, it will hurt her but life is about hurting and getting hurt. I promise you she will get through it. you cant stress on every decision you make by wondering who you're going to hurt. you have to do what is best for you.
so this guy (justin) and I were together for about a year. we were each other's first love. its been about a year or more that we haven't talked. I went to a party and ended up meeting one of his close friends(josh). Josh ends up wanting to hang out the next weekend, and tells me that Justin wants to come with his girl friend. Its really hard to get over your first love, and i still love justin. I want to go and hang out because it would be fun, but i'm really nervous because i might get a little jealous of the girl...but i don't really know what to do. what do you guys think about the situation? thanks for your feedback
You should not date you exes friend. There will always be bumping of heads with you and your ex, therefore always uncomfortable moments. This can cause trust issues between you and Josh and it is just not a good out look. You just admitted you still love Justin, so youre asking for trouble if you decide to date Josh. Don't test yourself, and put yourself in uncomfortable situations.
And if you are thinking of getting Justin back, I dont think that is a good idea either, Justin will never trust if you were thinking about dating his friend.
you know where you're heart is, work on that first and when you are really over Justin and ready to date again, find someone wayyyyyy out of his circle.