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Hey ya'll! I'm just an average girl from California (originally North Carolina)that is down to Earth and I speak what is on my mind. I am fourteen years old and I like to act much older than I am, mature wise. I will only answer intelligent questions. I'm not saying I know everything, but ask me a question and I will give an answer as best I can. I take this website very seriously and will not tolerate brainless, adolescent people.

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You do not under any circumstances have to take mine, or anyone else's advice. Listen to your gut instinct, although if you need back-up or reassurance advicenators' columnists are always here.

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Me and my girlfriend had been goin out for a while but then the other day she broke up with me i asked her why and i found out she wasnt goin outr wit this other guy already. Please tell me what to do!

Forget her! I know that may sound very rude, and I know you may not want to, but it is the best! If she doesn't like you for you and likes some other guy more, than she isn't worth your time. I think you may need to take some time to figure out who you would like to date next, because no one like to be treated this way and be cheated on.. I'm very sorry that you are one of the people that had to go through something this bad. Just don't be mean to her, and don't try to seek revenge, that is just showing that you will stoop down to her level. Hope I helped!

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There is this girl that I REALLY want to ask to prom. But there is one small problem. She says she doesnt really do the school dance thing. We went out to the movies last week, and she said she had a great time. We've been friends for a while, and I finally admitted I have feelings for her, and she said she likes me too. So I dont know, should I ask her, or should I ask someone I dont know as well? And if I should ask her, how should I ask? I am a singer, but I'm not confident about my talent under THAT sort of pressure! Please help!

I, myself don't really do the school dance thing, but if I went out with a guy and had a great time and liked him, I would go one night for him! I would probably end up having a blast too. I thought this was a cute website: (I looked on google, what can I say, I love that search engine!)

http://www.theromantic.com/stories/askdate/main.htm

Maybe that will give you a couple of ideas, and if you can sing and you know you're good, you should somehow include that in your creative proposal!

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Hi, I'm a 19/f and I've been with my boyfriend for about three years. Instead of just doing things or getting him gifts only on special occasions, I like to be spontaneous and surprise him on a random day "just cause".

Over the period of these three years, I've done a lot like make him crafty cards, cook for him, and etc, but I feel like I'm running short on ideas!

Keep in mind I am on a budget since most of my money is spent for my college tuition and textbooks. What I'd like to ask is if you all have any good ideas on what I could do to surprise him and remind him of how much I love him that is creative and affordable? My target is to get him something that he'll enjoy and that could possibly be useful (it doesn't have to be romantic), because I've given him a lot of love mementos already.

Here are some of his interests if it helps:

-cars
-computers
-video games
-movies
-food (the guy loves to eat)

Thanks!

You could always go with a lot of little things. I also agree with icey0990, can't go wrong with food. One thing that is extra creative is maybe a scavenger hunt around his residence. You could go to a crafts store and buy index cards, glitter, markers, for an affordable price. Make colorful clue cards and place them where he will see them. Try in the toilet seat or in the fridge, places he always goes! Just a thought, and a few ideas to start you off..be creative, what ever it is I'm sure he will love it :)

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