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I have a pretty normal life, but I'm kinda diffrent I geuss...I love my life and my friends and family and God of coarse. I go to a small high school and I go to church regularly. I just really love life thou lol :)
-I love sports
-& boys
-& the Pistons
-& the Tigers
-& people, I really like people, they facinate me lol!

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15/f

hi, i just turned 15 and i STILL havn't had a boyfriend, a kiss, or even a hug from a guy. I am shy around guys that i have a crush on, i'm not a mute, but i get kind of nervous. I have a lot of guy friends (who i like), but none of whom want to/will ask me out. I think i'm pretty, i have a good body, i'm nice, smart, have a sense of humor, and i am pretty easy going. Why don't i have a boyfriend?? it doesn't make sense to me. Can you explain it to me please?? (also, can u give me a few pointers on how to get a guy, that i like, to fall for me??)

Thanks!!

wow, you sound pretty much just like how i used to sound i didnt have a bf or kiss from a boy till i was just a lil bit after 15...just what i learned is keep being yourself, dont try to act like your someone your not because a lot of the time boys like girls that are unique. my advice... everytime you talk to one them try saying one thing you normally wouldnt say.

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hey guys thanxs for the answers yall left me...so I have another one..okay so wat if I'm reely scard to make the first move..because like what if I tell him how I feel ...then like I'm just left there..with nothin but what I said and what I wished he said? like if he's just like " wow umm " and then like I run him off or something..but I've known him forever and I dont think he would do that but people change ya know?....I know this is reely stupid..but I'm just scared...please help..I need some confidence boosting help ya know? lol...thanxs yall!

okay, ive put my self out there twice in my life (im in 8th grade) the first guy i just told him that i liked him (it was obvious cuz i never left his side) on aim one day, he didnt like me back (i also knew him forever) but we were still friends until he recently took up the habit of drinking, i quit talking to him now........the second one went much better i asked him if there was a possibility that he might like me..then he asked me if i liked him...so i said yes and now its all good were not going out (cuz at that moment he was still in love with one of my best friends, but were like as close as it gets w/o actually going out.
hope i helped
-janelle

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hi, i'm chloe

This boy asked me to go out with him as in be in a girlfriend, boyfriend thing. I wanted to say yes but said no instead because, I wasn't sure I knew how to be someones girlfriend and would like more to go out on a couple of dates with him than start a relationship. But my friend had set the whole "asking me out thing" up, so I'd have a boyfriend and is now saying "he's probably the only boy who'll ever like you" which is making me regret doing it.But I'll look stupid if I ask him out now plus he's being a bit out of order to me at the moment. What should I do?

#1)tell her this: that you dont know how and would rather experiment going on a few dates before becoming his girlfriend/him being you boyfriend.
#2)Tell him the same thing you told your friend who set you up.
#3) if your notinto him then just tell him and her. the truth is always best. trust me i know.
hope i helped
-janelle

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