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I am a ninth grade girl who likes to give advice to people. Feel free to ask questions about anything and I will try my best to answer you ASAP!

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my bf just told me he was a pothead...and hes been doing it for almost a year. and we've been going out for more than a year, i dont know what to do. hes lied to me for so long. i told him if he did it i'd dump him but he did it anyway. i only said that so maybe he wouldnt do that but it didnt work. idk what to do. im so confused and idk. please help. and dont tell me to dump him because i cant. i love him too much to do that. no matter what he does.

Tell him what you think. If he didn't stop when you threatened to dump him, than he really doesn't love you. You can do better - Relationships are all about trust and if he has been lying on top of all this, he doesn't deserve a person like you.

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ok, so i have a ton of guy friends, and i never have any trouble talking to them or anything. but theres this one guy that i have a crush on, and i cant look at him when i talk to him! i dont know why, i can talk to him fine, but i avoid looking at him, which makes me look stupid! what can i do to make myself look at him? i can talk just fine, but the looking is the problem... thanks!!

I am the exact same way. That m'dear, is called a crush :-) When you are talking to him, just try to look up once in awhile - the more you talk to him, the easier it will be to look him in the face. Good luck!

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