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I want to kiss him but I'm scared to tell him what should I do to let him know I want to kiss him??

A kiss starts with a moment usually if you are alone and he walks you home you will have the moment where you look into each others eyes and everything else fades away.you will know to kiss him.

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So im a 16/f
ive been with the same guy for 4 years. he moved to florida which is across the country. he is however moving back. I dont know what to do. He is bi-polar, and one second he tells me we're soul mates then next he says we shouldnt be together. Im so lost.

If this was me I wouldnt go out with him because bipolorness can be a very dangerous thing and he could hurt you but if being with him makes you happy go for it

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How do I let a guy know I want to kiss him? What kind of signs should I give him? And how do I approach this whole thing? Please give me any other advice or suggestions because im going for my first kiss soon!

are you going out with him because if you are it is simple all you do is hug him and go for it but not to eager or it will be ackward

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iv ben dating this guy i like but i dont want to be his girlfriend. he understands because i just went through being cheated on in my two year relationship so im not ready for commitment. but i feel myself commited to him, we are only friends, but today i had two friends over and one left then me an a guy i like just cuddled but i wouldnt kiss him, does it matter if i would have? its not considered cheating but is that wrong to do. i didnt i just wanted to. also, should i consider to stay dating the one guy or should i open my options, he lives an hour away and is younger and his parents like run him they wont even let me drive him but he is amazingly sweet.

well if you wanted to kiss the other guy you obviously didnt want to kiss your boyfriend and if you are thinking about the other guy then you are not thinking about your boyfriend. and it is wrong to even think about kissing someone else if you have a boyfriend. You should break up with your boyfriend and go out with this other guy because you like him

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14/f
i dated this guy for around 3 months on and off.
he broke up with me via text, when we saw each other again from the break up he tryed so hard for me to forgive him, that eventually i did. Were friends now, yet i still have feelings for him. People say he likes me to but im really not sure. How do i know if feelings are still there on his part?

Well if he tried that hard to have you forgive him there are obviously still feelings for you he just doesn't want you to see them because he maybe doesn't want to hurt you again and maybe he doesn't want a seriious relationship maybe he just wants to be friends guys are complicated so good luck

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My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He was going through a depression and cut off all connections with everyone. He says he needed time alone and that he was no longer happy with anything. First he stopped talking to his best friend. Then all other friends, then he broke up with me. I tried to still be there for him and told him to call me whenever he needed me. But after a couple of weeks of roller coaster emotions and not being sure if he was going to call or not, i decided to end the whole thing. He kept telling me that he will come back one day and that I just need to be strong and move on for now. So thats what I told him that I needed to move on and not to call me anymore unless things were going to be different. he told me he didn't know if he loved me anymore. because he doesn't know how he feels about anything anymore. He said that his depression was getting worse and needed to find jesus. So we said our finally goodbyes last week and haven't talk since

-Other details:
we were really in love and didn't have a bad relationship. Even planned marriage
he was in a depression when we were both in freshman year. He stopped talking to all of friends then too and then later regretted it and tried to get back in contact with them a year later when we started dating.
we are both seventeen and are in our junior year of high school. We were together 9 months but have know each other for 4 years. We liked each other freshmen year but he became very depressed because he was backstabbed by his friends and his first love cheated on him. He cut off all connections with everyone at school then to. He moved schools our 10th grade year. We didnt talk all school year but I texted him out the blue during summer and we began to have a relationship. He tried to get back in contact with the friends he cut off because he regretted doing that to them.
I REALLY MISS HIM AND IN YOUR OPINION DO YOU THINK WE WILL EVER TALK AGAIN?
he was my best friend and i was his. We talked about everything
Please do not tell me i need to just move on. Because i am doing that. When i am ready to date again. I will do so. But I just really want him in my life again... .. or do you think it would be weird if i wait a couple of months give him his space... then call him to check on him?
i will do anything to have him in my life again... even if its just as friends

& please excuse any misspelled words and my grammar I wrote this in a rush..Thank you in advanced

Yes! I believe he will talk to you. He is in a stage of depression which, hopefully and probably, he will grow out of. He needs someone to talk to and to trust no matter what he says. Being depressed is one thing. Being depressed and alone is worse. Try to text him, just a friendly conversation to let him know you are there for him again. Just talking to someone, especially someone he cares about (YOU!!!), will make him feel needed and loved and cared about, something he probably hasn't felt since the break-up and before. This is because when you are depressed, you second guess everything-love, friends, even life. He just needs time, but, again, try to text him. He will come around :)

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hi i am 21 yrs old girl from london just started going out with my new boyfriend i am meeting him next week dont have a clue what to do or where to go. Can you plz give me some ideas asap
thanx

Well I think you need to sit down and calm down and ask yourself if you really want to be with him and if you really like him but for now just calm down and give yourself a pep talk and tell yourself you will get through it but dont regret saying yes look at this date to be a good thing. Get your wants in a man straight and if he fits this discription go for it. Figure out if he is the kind of guy you want to be with. If he is go to where ever he is meeting you and just sit down and ask him how he is doing and if he is going to college and things like that. If you are going to breakfast dress in some nice jeans or a nice skirt (not short) and a nice shirt that isnt very low cut because if you wear a low cut it will tell him that you really like him and that you dont have a very nice appearance with clothes. If it is a lunch date wear a nice medium leanght skirt and a nice shirt or tank top with a little sweater over it and if it is a dinner date wear a nice dress with a sweater so it tells him that you are still attractive but not a slut.

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