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Ok listen!
My boyfriend and i r really in love and people are tell me that we are going to break up and we usually call each other but we haven't talked all day! I am really worried! I need help! I am soo confused and sad!! Plzz help!
Thanks
Friz!!!
I am 13 and so is he! (link)
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Your only 13--and if you get that worried over one day of not talking--then thats not love. Love involves trust. I would just call him up again, and try to talk to him.
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Here's the deal, I like this guy at school, and we have one class together. I'm not even entirely sure that he likes me back, but I'm willing to pursue a relationship with him if it comes up. Thing is, he's a senior, I'm a freshman, and if we considered dating each other now, summer would come and end all too soon and he would be off to college. What should I do? Get to know the guy and possibly get hurt in the near future, or move on and possibly pass up a wonderful oppurtunity to get to know someone.. Please help, I'll rate!
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I was recently in a very similar situation! I met a guy may, last summer, and he was just amazing! Things were great for about two months, but as August approached, we both began to question what we were going to do. He was leaving for school (freshman year of college) and I was about to start my senior year of highschool. We basically decided that we would take a break.
I am happy to say though that today we are together still! December, he came back for holiday break, and we knew that we still wanted to be together.
So--my advice for you is to just take things day by day. Enjoy the summer with this boy. But make sure you keep up good communication. If I could go back, I would have tried to talk to Pat (my boyfriend) about him leaving sooner than when we did.
By talking early, and just taking things slow, it will help build your relationship, and you may find things easier when school rolls around to stay together!! By having good communication between you two, the trust you both will have for eachother will automatically become stronger as a result, and for most long distance relationships, having that strong trust is so important.
Good luck, and I hope I was of some help! Please keep me updated with how things go! Also--just remember, you are still young, and so like I said before, take things day by day, everything happens for a reason!
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I have had my heart broken alot. Since my ex (which was ended about 9 months or more ago) I still haven't moved on. Now I have someone I really like that likes me. I want to be with him I am just scared I will be hurt again.. Should I trust him?
He is a wonderful guy and really gorgeous. I am just afraid to give my heart to someone again and then it be handed back broken. (link)
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It seems as though you have a good thing going for you. Getting over a broken heart can be a very hard thing to do, and may take time. But by shutting out something that potentially could be exactly what you need is not the best thing to do.
Try hanging out with this boy, go on a few dates, and see how things go. Remember, you don't HAVE to rush into anything serious. By taking things slower, you will be able to build up your relationship with this new boy, and learn from mistakes that may have led to the past relationships breakups.
If you feel comfortable enough, you could even try talking to this new boy about your past. Explain to him where your coming from. If he is the great guy you say he is, then he will respect you and work with you to create a relationship you both feel comfortable to be in.
I hope I was of some help. Please keep me updated with what happens, and good luck!
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Theres this guy named Jack..and well..my best friend's bro is friends with him. They both go to my school. Well the other weekend me and Jack hung out..with my best friend and her bro..well he was flirting with me the whole night..and me n him were just talking to eachother and no one else. So..Joe (his best friend) thinks he likes me and he keeps making fun of Jack for liking me. He does it non stop to me and him. It was funny at first but its getting old. Well..i like Jack..and i really want to hang out with him but the thing is i dont think he will because some of friends make fun of him..what should i do? move on or what? (link)
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If you really like this boy, you should make a move. Now, when I say "make a move", all I mean is ask him to hang out. It may seem that Joe is giving Jack alot of crap, but alot of times, its is because they are jealous!
If this guy, Jack, likes you, then he will respond when you ask him to hang out. Try something simple like going to a movie, or maybe just "hanging out" at someones house. Go for a walk even! If he is a half decent guy, he will know better than to listen to his bone head friends who wish they were in his shoes!
Good luck with it all, and please keep me updated! I hope I was of some help!
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My b/f thinks im cheating on him... but his friends are telling me he is the 1 that is going around grabbing other girls butts! should i believe them and break up with him... or should i just go on pretending like i don't notice? (link)
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I think the number one thing needed in any relationship is communication. Based on just this question, it seems as though the communication may be lacking. If I were in your shoes, I would talk to your boyfriend. Try inviting him over to hang out, just the two of you, and very casually, try to bring up the subject. Explain to him that your not cheating (I am assuming that your not) and also discuss what his friends are saying. Although, be very careful when you talk about what his friends say. Instead of outright saying, "he said, she said this about you" try telling him that you heard some things from people, and you want to make sure you understand the situation.
If all else fails, and things don't work out, remember that everything happens for a reason. Its not healthy to be in a relationship that is constantly questioning others actions. I hope I was some help and Good luck!!
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