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Well there is this guy who really loves me we met in February 2019 and we hooked up twice in the same month he did that because it was his first time and me beacuse one and only lust . He fell in love with me after the kiss but i never did . My family is way too strict they wouldnt let me go outside alone even in morning. They'll beat me up if ill hv a boyfriend my dad is dominating and even my grandfather and so since i dont get out much. He has alwyas been that guy who wants to go out and meet people we were different in taht way. Well he loves me way too much and now i realise whenever i meet him its not a good time to me im just way too uncomfortable with him whenever i meet him end up regretting why i took efforts cause its very difficult for me due to family . Now he has always supported me and helped no matter what. He payed my bill he took so many efforts he will do anything for me he brings me gifts but then there am i who doesn't love him . I was scared to loose him because hes the one who got me out of depression due to my family. Im scared to loose him why because maybe ill never find someone who loves me like him. Whenever ill call him he will come up to meet me but just i dont feel anything for him and its just im way too uncomfortable with him i can't kiss him hug him i push him away when he tries the same reason again why . Im not sure what to do? (link)
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Hey,
First of all its very important for you to accept this matter that though he loves you , you only see him as a friend but most importantly THERE'S NOTHING WRONG IN IT.
Your fear of loosing him is very obvious , but the fact that he was the one who took you out of depression from your family matters also states that he understands you pretty well.
Now coming to the main part what should you do?
Honestly, its better to tell him the truth, say him that right now you don't have any feelings for him.You want both of you to spend more time in order to make you friendship strong ,also mention this to him that how important is he to you and who knows may be you will fell in love with him in future.
Talking about your fear to loose him, if he really likes you and most importantly understands you he will get your point. And I believe that he will be there for you when you need him.
hope this helps!!!
Thank You.
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I am a girl in high school
I’ve been talking to a guy from my school for a while now. He has been really open and honest with me. He wants to go on a date with me. It’s been moving really fast. But he had a girlfriend a month ago. I don’t want to be a rebound if he’s just looking to have someone. So is he just being desperate wanting a date or is this real? (link)
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Hey,
Its a very obvious concern of your's about the above mentioned guy.
I would suggest you to not rush directly for the relationship, its highly possible that its a rebound for him.
What you should do is give time for the bond you two share to grow, if you see that the guy is pushing you, not really directly but many other ways to be in a relationship , then its highly likely that he will use you as a rebound.
But if you see he is ready to share more time with you to in order to make your bond strong then as i said take your time and accept him only if you see it as good for you.
Hope this helps!!!
Thank You
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