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My name is Nikki� and I love to help people with there problems. I wont give you cheap not-really-caring-answers. (= I'll make sure to give you the best answer you can ever get! Well, heres a little about me, I love to smile :D its my favorite! Singing,writing, and acting are my life. If you have any questions that are privite or personal you can send me an IM from Ask me dudex3 (which i made JUST for advicenators) by the way, i will answer any questions, no matter who werid/embarrising/sick or personal! (= thanks for reading. Please ask a question if you need help!
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I've been with my boyfriend for about a week. He is friendly and has a ton of friends, although he's not considered popular and he's definitely not a jock. Since we've been together we've gone as far as taking all of our clothes off except underwear. He constantly makes sure I'm comfortable with this because, as he puts it, I'm too important to him to ruin it over something like moving too fast.
I'm completely okay with how far we've gone, and its comforting that he seems to care about me. However, everytime we hang out we only make out and never talk. I know a relationship needs more than physical aspects, and he assures me that he's not looking for a purely physical relationship. How do I make sure he's not just using me? Thanks in advance.
Well, maybe you guys are moving to fast. You should tell him to that it would be better to take things slow. And if he cares about, he will respect that. Try not to make talk 24/7 though. Just call each other, go hang out at the mall together or do something that will get your mind off making-out and getting to know each other. That way it can be fun, so you know you dont have to make out all the time to have a good time together (=
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and i'm going into 7th grade. I go to this day camp, and, i am an aide there. There is this guy there, that I think is really hot, and I always catch him staring at me. I know his sister pretty well, but, she is two years older than me, this guy is on my grade, but, doesn't go to my school, and in camp, we have no classes together. I really want to get to know him, though. I think he knows my first name. He has smiled at me a couple times, but, we've never actually talked. how do I get to know him, by letting him take the first move? please help me because he seems like an amazing guy! :] And, if you are gonna say, ohh, well, you need to strike up a converstaion with him, then don't answer this please, because I don't even knoe if he'd want to talk to me, and in 7th grade, girls don't do that, unless they know the kid!
Well try talking to his sister (= just be like, Well actually i think your brothers really cute..and i was wondering if you could us meet each other. Or maybe you should just wave at him, or give him a smile. (= guys like girls who are friendly! And i know who you feel, i just left from seventh grade. And ask his sister what kind of girls he's into..that might help!
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