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ok...everytime im with my boyfriend all i can think about is ripping off all of his clothes and having sex with him. i know its wrong and i want to wait until im married and everything but i want it sooo bad!!! i know im a terrible person, and ive done everything BUT go all the way. ive been in a lot of situations where i ALMOST did it but im so afraid of getting pregnant so we stop. one of these days i know im just going to crack and give it up to him but idk if im ready to, my mind is saying that i am but my hearts telling me to wait. what do i do?!?! (link)
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Yeah, sex. There's nothing wrong with it! Yeah there isn't with the physical act. Why? Well we wouldn't be here if our parents didn't decided to "get it on." What makes it "bad" is not thinking ahead! Sex has one basic function and that's to make babies! Crying little adorable pooping babies! Did I mention vomit too? Are you ready for that? Got your birth control? Got your condoms? Good. Just to let you know, that stuff doesn't always work. Few questions to ask yourself before you jump in and going wild.
1. Is this guy able to support your pregnant butt when you are laid up in bed with pain?
2. Is he going to be there to help support the baby when he/she is born?
3. Do you have a support group? Mom, Dad, Grand Parents etc...
4. Does the thought of not being able to go as you please or get up in the middle of the night and go to the Quick-E-Mart to grab a soda at 3AM bother you?
5. Does he care?
6. If he were to walk out on you can you support a child on your own?
That's the straight dope girl. You gotta think about these things! Most girls will raise their babies on their own with little to NO support from the father. That's just a cruel fact. Be real. Talk about it. There's other alternatives to intercourse.
Fact is, it's almost inevitable that you will one day have sex. Be prepared!
BTW I am a guy and I have kids.
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why do people try and break you and your man up when they know yall are happy? (link)
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There's really just four possible answers.
1. They are jealous of you not hanging out with them all the time like you used to or not giving them your undivided attention
2. They secretly worship the ground he walks on and want him for themselves.
3. They know something about him you don't but, are too scared to tell you because they don't want to hurt your feelings. For an example, they know he hates kittens and you adore them.
4. See above.
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i want someone to love me. i want someone i can love back. someone i can take care of. someone to run around the city with and to talk with into the early hours of the morning.i want someone who will buy me shiny things and fix my computer. someone who can talk common sense into me when i freak out, and remembers small aniversaries. i want someone who loves me because of my imperfections, not in spite of them. someone who is secure of who he is and isnt afraid to stand up for what he belives. i have so much to give and no one sees me for what i could be to someone.
dear advicenators, is this a totally ridiculous wish? (link)
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"...is this a totally ridiculous wish?"
No not at all. Just be warned that no one is perfect and no one can every meet your every expectations. Keep your eyes open and Mr. Right/Miss Right will come along soon enough.
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