Hiya, I'm Katie, I'm a 18 year old Honor Student/AP Student. I love peer to peer counseling, so I feel this should be a wonderful place for me to help :)
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Okay I've been with this guy for about six months and we just recently broke up. When we broke up I asked him if it was over completely and he said no. Now I am wondering what I should do? Should I wait on him or should I choose to move on? I still like him a whole lot and he still likes me but I'm not sure if I should wait and see what happens. This is the second time we've broke up. What do I do? I live in California and there is so many guys that are hot here. (link)
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I've definitely been through that. Quite recently actually, with my 14 month relationship.
That said, why is he breaking up with you in the first place if it's not over completely? One of the few reasons I can think of is to hook up with other girls, and get back with you, so he can technically not be labeled a cheater. If you discover the reasons for this "break" are indeed what I just said, I say you need to move on. This guy will continue to break your heart.
However, if for some other odd reason this is happening, go by the three strikes rule. This is his second strike, his second time breaking up with you, and his third chance is coming to make it final. If you guys get back together and break up a third time, I would say to move on. You're just going to get your heart broken.
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