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Hey ,my names christina. I love helpin people out with there problems when ever they need it.most of my friends come to me too when they have a problem. So ask me anything n ill try my best to answer it

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OK..me and my bestfriend got in a fight and now we hardly talk...its hard to not talk to her because i used to spend alot of time with her. We always got into fights but got over them fast..What shud i do? signed-confused:/

Hey i know how i feel ive been like this before with my friend pam. Write a note to her or talk to her in person about it. but i really cant help because you didnt say what kind of fight sorry

♥Christina Maria

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i don't know if i'm bi or not. i like guys but lately i've been attracted to girls too. i found out this girl was bi and now i'm really attracted to her and i like alot of other girls. but not just any girl, i only like really pretty girls. i don't want to be bi and i defnately can't tell anyone, that's not even an option so don't bring that up. so am i bi? tell me more about this.

Well if u like other girls then yea your bi...

♥Christina Maria

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okay so i live in webster and we have a big neighborhood.. all the boys in my neighborhood pick on me and make fun of me because i dont look how they want me 2.. there like you should dress like so and so im like noo thats ok i'm not gonna slut myself out to be friends with them..what should i say to them..cause they won't hang out with me without saying that stuff.. what should i say to them?


thanks for the help christina


signed i dont wanna dress like that

well you know what tell them that if they have a problem with you. To just shutup because its none of there buissnes on who YOU want to be its yours! and you say well if you dont like who i am and how i dress dont talk to me and you said it like 500 times already i heard you the first time you dont need to say it again..and just tell them off how you feel!

Good luck

♥Christina Maria

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hey christina, im 16 years old, and i live in webster. i've been going out with this kid for about 5 months now, i KNOW i'm in love with him. but i went to a party the other day and my bf wasn't there. but there was this other kid and me and him were flirting majorly. he had his hands ALL over me, and same with me about him. we didn't kiss or anything. and now this kid always flirts with me from across the room at school and i do the same for him. should i break up with the boy that i know im in love with bc im having temptations from this other kid, or is this just normal. bc i dont wanna play my bf, but i dont wanna loose him. and is this considered cheating? me and my boyfriend have made-out, but me and this other kid haven't at all. please helpppp.. thanks bunchessss

Wow, Well first do you think that you should really be all over and flirting with another guy when your going out with someone else you really love? i mean you could end up messing everything up with the guy you love. But most of all fallow your heart if its saying to say with the guy your with now stay with him. But if saying something differnt go with that.

Always,
♥Chrsitina Maria

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Ok well... I basically ruined my whole fucking spring break... alright here's what happened. I met this really hot guy but he lives in the city so i dont know that much about him just yet. but we got to know eachother pretty well and we ended up making out like 50 times and did something else too :-x ... but it wasnt sex or anything but pretty close. so after it happened he wasnt really talking to me that much... so I went up to his homeboy and asked him what was up with my man? and so him and his homeboy talked about what was up with me and him... but it was taken to damn long so I just walked up to "my man" and asked him what was up and he told me that he wants to get to know me and go out with me... so i asked him "do u like me?" and he's like yeah of course I do... so that was that until later that night (this all happened at my friends house that I was at and I was there that night too) so me and my friend get a call from this girl saying that my mans homeboy was her man (my friend was going out with my mans homeboy and this was his pregent girl calling from the city) and she is bitching out my friend and then she hung up. then a lil while after we got another call from another girl and now she this girl is telling me that my man is her man and that she is his baby's mama and that I better stay away from him and shit (so we have 2 preganant girls calling us telling us that our men are theirs)... I swear to god right then and there I thought it literally the end of my life.. to hear that he had a girl that was 8 months pregent and he lied to me and everything we had was nothing at all :*-( ... so like 1/2 an hour later she calls back saying how they broke up and she's gonna get an abortion and "my man" denied even knowing me and he was talking madd shit. so just today she calls me telling me that there done for good n shit... then she calls back like an hour later again telling me how they just talked about it and she doesn't know if they're going to get back together now... but doesn't this girl tell me that this is the 2nd time he has cheated on her?! I'm like are you fucking forreal? but i don't know now because I think that I'm still in love with him even after... he lied, denied even knowing me, talked mad shit about me and his pregenant girl that I didn't even know about, him and her might get back together? :-/ I don't know I don't want to love him but I don't know... what if he calls me again or something? what do i say? do i tell him no? or do I tell him how I feel and try to be with him again? I really don't know, please help...

Hey,
Wow this is pretty hard. But what i think you should do is tell him how you feel but tell him no because what if he cheats on you and gets you preg and all this stuff yea i dont really think you want that to help him.But tell him you know i like you and all but this isnt write you gotta go help the other girl with the baby because shes your baby to because without you she wouldnt of had that baby. Dont worry about me right now and maybe later on we can get together but i really think that you should help her out. You know just be straight out with him. Sorry if thats not good help but i hope everything works okay good luck!

Always,
♥Christina Maria

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OK ive liked this kid for like a year and a half now and we have been dating on and off but ive been talking to one of his bestfrineds more then him latly and like im starting to like his bestfriend more than him cause like hes never on anymore and his parents hate me so its really hard for us to be together and plus he goes to a different school then me (some privent school) but hes coming back to my school next year and he keeps telling me that he loves me and stuff but then like the next day he acts like he dont even wanna talk to me and like i dont wanna wait til next year to be with him so should i just move on and start really talking to his bestfriend or should i just keep waiting?!? please helpp thanks soo much

PS: im a female and im 14

Hey,
Well what I think you should do is think about this first. Do you really wonna go out with a guy who is going to say they love you and the next day not even want to talk to you? I know I wouldnt. And another thing that might help is talking to his bestfriend about this and tell him how you feel for him and everything because you never know if he feels the same way. And if you have a chance with him take it, but first talk to the other guy ((the one you dont like as much)) and tell him that you dont think its working out and it would be hard because your parents hate me anyway and stuff. Sorry i dont think i helped all that well but if you need more help IM me xtiina 15

Always,
♥Christina

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