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Long story here,but I need some help I guess.
So theres this guy,ive crushed on for like 2 years but just started liking him LAST summer and ive liked him ever since.
We've been really good friends for a long time and stuff but at the end of summer we got in a big fight and didnt talk much,and then toward the end of school we became good friends again.
We always hangout and talk and stuff,and we've done some sexual things...
I never usually talk to him first,hes always the one to make the move.
Well I had posted this survey and it asked if you liked anyone and i said yeah.
He asked me who i liked and he begged me for a long time,i finally told him that it was him.
I kind of think he likes me but I dont know.
I was gonna hold it in longer,but its been so long so i decided its finally time.
I dont want him to think im weird or anything,and I dont know what to do.
We still talked after i told him but it felt weird,and I dont want him to think its weird.
So do you think it'll all go back to normal soon or do you think he'll say he likes me or what?
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It seems like that he likes you back! I think you should just wait for him to make a move. If he doesnt then just wait. Most guys dont want to mess up a friendship by asking out the friend. But if he likes you he will make a move. Trust me! I know waiting sucks but ITS WORTH IT! ;]
MAL-LORI
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how do i win this guy i really like back over? i lied to him, and that is why he broke up with me.. and he says i shattered his heart...and i really love him soo much. and i think he still loves me, he just dont trust me.. (link)
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Oh ok the thing about your problem is that lieing hurts people more than we really think. Your going to have to talk to him and tell him that you had a reason to lie to him and you never really meant to hurt him like you did. Tell him how you feel. How you really really do feel!
I hope that helped alittle !
Mal-lori
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ok so im 14 and im in complete love with my boyfriend and i know u here that all of the time but we hang out everyday and when im not with him its the worste feeling in the world and we've been together 5 months and we've been inseperable ever since so we were down in my basement the one day and me and him r kind of kinky haha and we like to fool around but we've never had sex and we arent going to b/c wer'e too young and there is too many risks so anyway, i went to put on a skirt [so he didnt have to pull my pants down b/c my mom was upstairs] and then i told my mom i was going to "model" the skirt for him so i wnet downstairs and out it on then he was laying on the floor and i went to step over him so he could look up my skirt and as soon as i did that my mom came down and saw that! i told her i tripped and she came down at the worste time ever it was soo bad and now she thinks im like a whore or something and i told her im not but im not going to tell her that ive done everything but sex esp. if she thinks ill ive done was make out yanno? and now my bf thinks my mom hates him but she doesnt so i dont know what to do! please help me! what do i do? :/ (link)
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LOL! that has to suck badly! im sry but the only thang you can really do is talk to your mom and try to tell her anything that will make her feel better. Theres nothing really to do to make your mom forget about this little problem. But yea she will get over it youll just have to wait it out!
Mal-lori
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Me and this boy like each other. we never admitted it to each otehr but we know we do. we have like a thing. and were going to be walking together to the park tomoroww and i want to hookup with him and im sure he wnats to hookup with me, but.... i dont know how to and im really nervous. i know im ready cuz im not young! im 15! but i dont wanna look stupid !
Help? Appricate ANYTHING!
Love --
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Ok, first thing is first if your really ready and he is, there should be no problem in hooking up! But the thing about "Hooking up" is theres not really any point in doing it at this age besides you can say Hey did you hear i hooked up with so and so. Hey but if you really think you want to do it know this: If its your first time its going to feel weird and it might even hurt alittle. Use a condom. Relax and take deep breaths. Dont worry about looking stupid. Its sex theres no wrong way in doing it!
I hope i helped alittle!
Mal-lori
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