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My wife and I have been married for 7 years. When I met her she was very reserved and shy acting. Our sex life was good but she never wanted to deviate from normal foreplay and intercourse. I had told her that I had 5 sexual partners before I met her (including an ex wife). She never said anything about her past other than having sex at 17 and then having not dated for 3 years prior to when I met her. After we were married she told my brother at a party that during 1 year at college she had sex with 27 guys and that she was proud of it as she had used them for sex. When he told me I was shocked. I married a slut as far as I was concerned. She is very religious and plays the good Baptist part well. I have told her that I am having a hard time dealing with the fact that she had so many partners in such a short time, the average total partners for a wome of 39 is 7. She has had sex with over 35 total partners. I told her that I need some details about why she had sex with so many guys and the details of what happened. She says it is none of my business, but I now just think about all of these guys fucking my wife every which way. We have not had sex for 4 months now and it is driving me nuts. I just can't get excited about her. I wonder were these guys great at sex, did they have bigs dicks did she do things with them that she will not do with me.
What should I do? Am I wrong to have an open conversation about the details of her sex capades? She also says she does not remember any details, yeah right?
She seems happy to not have sex now. Now that she does not have to work and I earn over $300,000 a year. I ask her how she could fuck all those guys who gave her nothing and not me the guy who has given her everything?
Please help.
Jimbojoe (link)
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The girl I am seeing has a past that makes yours look like a nun. She's had numerous sexual experiences including group sex and double penetrations, sex with women and so on. You name it, she's done it. She's been with a couple of dozen guys, and a half dozen women.
She's really f**ked up over her past, and that is the biggest issue we face. She often feels dirty, disgusted with herself, and ashamed.
Her past bothers me a lot too. Not the least of which, I've already met at least a half-dozen of the guys, and 2 of the women she's slept with.
I could call her a slut, which was no doubt true. But all of this is in her past, and she's good to me. She has no desire to go back to her past lifestyle.
To add insult to injury, for all the experiences she's had, she's not the great in bed. A lot of what she's learned in the past doesn't do it for me. And so I'm in essence teching her how to have sex properly.
In my case, my lady appreciates my understanding of her situation, and we have sex on a daily, often twice daily basis.
So my advice to you, is either suck it up, and get over it, or move on.
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