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Age: 14
Member Since: February 20, 2012
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14 (almost 15) female

My boyfriend and I have been dating officially for over a month now, but we've liked each other for a few years and we have been good friends for a long time. You probably think fourteen is too young to have a serious relationship, but I politely disagree.

My problem is that ever since the day we announced we were going out, it seems like everyone I meet has to put their two cents in. At school dances, people we hardly know watch us slow dance and take pictures while exclaiming how cute we are. Every time I speak to one of my relatives on the phone, they make rude jokes or snide comments. Most of my so-called "friends" make crude jokes and try to set the rules of our relationship.

These may not seem like major issues, but they do add up. I try to smile and laugh with these rude people, or sometimes I just ignore them. Lately, however, it's becoming more and more difficult. Please give me some advice on how to deal with these people, so my boyfriend and I can relax and just enjoy our relationships. (link)
We HAVE The Same Exact Problem & Were The Same Age It's Just That Me And My Boyfriend Have Been Dating For Three Months Now & Everyone Wants To Break Us Up And Always Message Me Or Him Asking About Our Problems Or Why Are We Arguing, The Way I Dealt With It Was Telling People To Worry About Themselves Because it's really going to break you guys up, so put the people who do it to the side and tell them you don't like the fact that they are in your buisness and you don't have to raise your voice speak to them in a adult way if they raise their voice just walk away that doesn't make you a coward it makes you look like the bigger person also don't tell other people your problems between you and your boyfriend because it will spread around and create drama tell someone you really trust and tell him too. he will be happy that your telling him how you feel :) it really works good luck


18/f

I went to a dance last night with my best friend. He's a great guy and we've become pretty close. I stayed at his house last night and we got a little drunk. We got to talking and he brought up how he's still getting over his ex. We cuddled on the couch and fell asleep after.
We hang out all the time and sometimes he does things that make me feel like he likes me. But I know he's still getting over her. What should I do? (link)
Tell Him How You Feel About Him, & Find Out If He Feels The Same Way And If He Doesn't Feel The Same Way Tell Him You Want Your Friendship To Stay The Way It Was,Don't Act Different Around Him After You Tell Him.




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