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Okay, so ive been going out with my new boyfriend for like a 2-3 weeks now, and i never really cared about his ex-girlfriend (megan) cause he is the sweetest thing ever, and he wouldn't do anything to hurt me. so his ex-girlfriend is like satan, seriously. with other girls he went for she sent other people to go "Sweep her off her feet" so she'd stay away from chris (the boy). anyway. So when we were just friends, i asked him what he did with megan, and like he never fully said that he had sex with her, just that he was about to then, he left like, walked out. and then today i found out he actualy did. but like, i don't care taht they had sex, just that he didn't tell me. and then my one friend amanda is like listening to megan whine about how i am now going out with chris and how much she misses him. and i want to text her and be like, can't you just get over him? he moved on. you should too. its been almost 4 months now since you two broke up. PLUS, she like has a boy she likes too! like, why is she even bothering?! like seriously just back off. i understand shes upset, but now its just pathetic. like today she like saw us kiss in the hallway, and she started crying. and then she recently was like texting him and saying how we would be going out for a year soon, and that she was gunna get him a wii if they were gunna make it for a year. what the hell, you're gunna bribe him back to going out with him? but anyway, i don't know what to do with confronting him about lying, or maybe she is lying, or even saying anything to megan. :) anything will be useful at this point.

she might just be upset still because they were "physical" and that might cause more emotion..but seriously if it is bothering you alot...tell her to get over him..

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So, I liked this boy and i told him, and he said he liked me too, so we start to get to know eachother better and blahblahblah, then i start talking to boy number 2, and he is so amazing, like the guy i've always dreamed of havin' kind of a thing. We were just friends and then he broke up with his girlfriend and i helped him along with it and we became real close, and we are always like "love you" and such, then boy 1's best friend just got lead on and dumped by this one chick and he was like "I WOULD DIE IF THAT HAPPENED TO ME!" so that just made it worse, like i can't do that too him now. So he asked me out a few days later and of course i said yes, i still like him at this point but i like boy2 more. That night boy2 got back together with his girlfriend and i just got real angry at him for it. And i like "confessed my love for him" you could say. And he said "I was actually going to ask you out later but then you told me your with the other Evan" So, that really screwed things over. Right now i don't have a lot of feelings for boy1 ((the one i am dating now)), but strong ones with boy2, and he says he has better feelings for me than his current girlfriend. But for us to be together i would have to break up with boy1, and he would break up with his girlfriend. So we can be happy together. But is hurting the other two really worth it?
Do i break up with Boy1 so i can be with boy2?

I use boy1 and 2 because their both named Evan.


Please Help??????

well if you aren't happy with boy1 and boy2 isn't happy with his current girlfriend..then breakup with them and get together. It might hurt their feelings but your feelings are more important.

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