Being a teenager is hard, and although every single person in the world has been a teenager at one point for example,Our parents.
I think they often forget how hard it actually is.
So if you need advice, a shoulder to cry on or just a friend, then ask me.
I am quite experienced in all sorts of things from boyfriend troubles to career choices, family matters, sex problems, you name it and I have probably been through it.
And thats exactly how I can help you - by working through your problems, lending a sypathetic ear a promise that I will never judge you or tell you want you want to hear. I will be trustwothy and honest.
So if any one needs to ask anthing please drop me a line!
- REMEMBER A PROBLEM SHARED IS A PROBLEM HALFED
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Oh my gosh! I think I am in love...please don't be harsh on me people. I cry about him all the time. I'm just so confused. I liked the guy for about a year, and I'm only 14. This isn't some middle school lust, or infatuation or a crush...this is the real thing. I'm so scared becasue I'm going to high school next year and...oh my gosh...he may not be in the same school because there's TON of different schools in this town. I love him...and I don't know what to do. Please help. I have it bad...and it's breaking my heart. What are ways to ask him out...he doesn't seem like the guy that owuld like little corny things. Please help me...anybody? I'm sorry, I'm just babbling adn I'm probably mispelling some words...but I care deeply for this boy. It's something I just can'r erase from my heart. Please help me...I'm EXTREMLY SHY! Seriously...I have no clue what to do...it's social anxiety disorder...
I don't want to talk to a friend about this...they won't believe me if I say I'm in love (even though they witness the way I talk about him)
Please somebody help...anything to....I don't know...Don't mind me...I only have a month and a half left, and I probably won't ever get the courage to ask him out anyway...GOSH I'M SO STUPID!
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Dear "In love"
First of all I would just like to say that you are NOT stuupid, feelings of this sort are all part of us girls growing up, it certainly wont be the last time that you have these felings I have to be honest !!! - but as you mature you will learn how to cope with them better.
If you havn't even asked the guy out yet, its very unlikley that these are feelings love, love is one of the strongest emotions that we have and the term is often used a little lightly.
You dont know what the guy would be like in a relationship, if he could give you everything that you wanted and deserved.
Think of the word love and what it means !!
However if you do end up seeing this guy and you each devote time and effort into your relationshp and it feels right am sure that love could devolope.
But until you get to know each other properly, you are pobably confusing your feelings of love with those of need.
Just think he may have loads of bad habits that you just cant stand, he may do loads of stuff that irritate you.
So until you know him well enough and realise your own feelings only then could you love him - warts nd all !!!!
I wish you all the Luck in the world !
Kate
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Can some one give me an average age of getting a boy friend? (link)
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Dear "Confused"
There is no age at all, the longer you are single the better is what I say !!!
Time to enjoy yourself, spend time with your friends and figure who you are wnd what you want out of life!
If a guy comes along then GREAT, but make sure it feels right and he is worthy of your time and attention.
You have plenty of time to find a boyfriend - enjoy your life for what it is honey and when its meant to happen it will, and you will enjoy every minute of it.
Good Luck
kate
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i care a lot about what people think
what should i do? (link)
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Dear "I care"
It's good that you care what people think, it indicates that you are a caring and sensitive person, which we often need more of in this world!
As long as you dont put too much effort into caring about what people think about you for example how you dress, or your image. As long as you are happy the way that you are then the people who REALLY care and love you will be happy too.
Take Care
Kate
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