Hi , i love your page and all your advice and thats why i need your help. I really like this boy and he says he likes me too . But, my best friend and I both started liking him at the same time so she'd kill me if she knew about this. He's mad that i wont tell her about it but he does understand. My best friend is a great friend but I know she wouldn't understand. I Love this boy and I dont know what to do
hey! i think i kno who this is but ne ways .. just try nd tlk to ur friend nd tell her how you feel .. also try nd figure who liked him first .. you can then determin if she took him from you or not .. if she makes a big fuss about it when it doesnt have to be then she isnt being much of a friend .. i rele hope i helped .. good luck =)
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if some one doesnt like you you but you like them what should you do
well .. theres not much you can do .. just recieve it nd find someone else .. hope i helped
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ok well i have a boyfriend.. i mean i like him a whole lot! but its just these gurls that r his friends tell me that hes saying hes only going out with me to get some and that he told them everything looks good on me but my face and i dunno who 2 believe but then theres this other boy that likes me a whole lot and wouldnt do anything like that or anything to hurt me and hes always been there 4 me but then again im scared to loose my boyfriend.. and im just all confused and just dont no wut to do.. so i hope yew can help me out a little..
hey! wow thats tough .. find out first .. talk to him . ask him whats up .. nd if you feel that hes not tellin the truth then i would let him go .. nd if you do that try to get to kno the other guy .. there might be sommin there .. hope i helped!
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hey my name is amber i am 15 years old, okay here is the deal i like this kid name kyle i have a mad crush on him since 7th grade thats 3 years or so but like i dont know what to do i've told him before that i liked him and i really want to have a relashioship with him. But it seems like i am invisable when i am around him. somedays we are so close we cuddle that kinda stuff then the next he acts like i am even born. I had my friend witch is a boy ( that i gess he has a mad cruch on me =( ) ask him if he would ever consider going out with me. He came back to tell me the news that kyle said that i was { hot and nice but he just dont like me or consider me like that} i dont know what to do i like him so much that i cant stand not having him. when i am around the kid i cant breath my hands shake i am so shy i cant even talk to him kinda pathadic but o well ... So i am trying to say is what should i do forget about him or just give it more time.. since i've tried since 7th grade to get him to like me..
thanks!
buh byes,
amber! =(
hey! well since you have been trying that long mabey you should forget about it. if he rele wanted to go out with you they he would have done that already ... personally , i think its best if you 2 just remained friends .. hope i helped =) .. let me kno how evrything works out.
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ive been in love with this 1 boy since the 8th grade and still goin strong now that im a soph. im in love w/him and i kant get over him but we are best friends and every time i tell him i like him he says its weird kuz were so klose and stuff but i want and need him so BAD it was love at first site man.. plz help me
heyy! mabey hes just saing that because he dosnt want to be ne thing more than just friends .. for now just respect that nd then like l8r on ask him if you want to take there friendship to another level .. hope i helped
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Well, 2 guys like me!! I like both of them, but the bad thing is they r both friends! I don't want 2 go out w/1 of them and the other 1 be mad. The other bad thing is that I am really good friends w/1 of them,a nd if I go out w/him then I don't want 2 risk our friendship...the other 1 I am friends w/but not as good friends as the other 1. What should I do b-c I like both of them, they r both sweet and nice. Should I just stay friends w/both of them or should I go out w/1 of them risking the consequences? HELP ME OUT!
hey! yea just stay friends with both of them .. there prolly gonna hate each other if you choose one and not the other .. just remain friends nd find some one else ... hope i helped
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heey umm i was juss wonderin what i should do bout my problem...i like this kidd and we went out twice already and i dumped him twice l[personal reasons]l and i asked him out again cause i really really like him and wanna bEe wit him and he never answered me yet... what should i do cause i really am cOnfused. like drop him or juss give it time cause i dumped him twice and he dOnt kno what to sayy?
thanks buh bye
hey! just give him time or just see what he thinks about that .. hope i helped =)
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Im a 16 year old madly in love with this boy. The only thing is he dont kno. I mean he knows that i care bout him a lot he just dont kno that im in love wit him. His cousin told me once that he even said that he loved me alot the thing is he hasnt told me that he did. I joke around alot sayin yea love ya to, but he just says you dont love me. im just the type of person that i dont really like to talk to him about stuff like that i get scared of wut he will say. what do you think that i should do?!?
hey! i think that you should tlk to him and be serious by saing that you actually do love him .. and if he dosnt believe that then he isnt the right guy for you to go out with .. hope i helped =)
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i like this guy a lot and last year we dated. We started dating in may and decided to take our relationship into the summer. But i guess his mom was getting all of my letters, and reading them, and thinking that they werent appropriate, so she made him dump me. but now i still have feelings for him, and he knows i do, but we are sort of suppose to date cuz of his mom, what should i do about this? PS. the letters were appropriate his mom is a crack-head
hey! lol yea i understand .. all parents are like that .. have him tlk to his mom and just convince her that you are right for him .. but first c if he still has feelings for you and if he agrees to tlk to his mom .. if that dosnt work either just sneak and go out or just remain friends until his mom feels its okay to go out again .. hope i helped =)
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aright well my and my boyfriend have been going out for close to 4 months. we used to fight all the time over nothing. well to him it was nothing. he would always tlak about other girls and how hot they were and shit and i couldnt stand it. im sure you wouldnt have been able to either. well we stopped fighting for about a week but that was because i enevr confronted him on how i felt. that was about a month ago. and for about 2 weeks everything has been good. but sometimes i feel like i annoy him, and i asked him but he said yea and he was kidding. but sometimes i feel like hes not kidding and i told him that already. i dont want to lose him, i love him way to much and we have a great relationship. when i talk to him he thinks im mad at him and that im yelling at him and im really not. what should i do?
hey! i definitly would be mad if he was tlking about other girls and we were going out .. ne ways talk to him again .. start out by saying that im not mad at you i just want to work things out to make out relationship better. then just tell him how you feel not making it sound like ur yelling at him even though ur not .. hope i helped .. let me kno how evrything goes.
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Ummm...I'm answering ur answer 2 my question...lol. But yea about my ex telling ppl not 2 go out w/me. Well, I would talk 2 him, but I don't want 2 lose a really good friend, and I think I kinda like him, b-c he was like my first true love, so there will always be a place 4 him in my heart. But see that hott guy I was going 2 go with...I like him 2, so now wut should I do...this is a tough one 4 me, I hope I get lots of advice!
hey! well i cnt rele tell you much but to follow ur heart .. it will tell you whats right. just continue to be friends with the one tru love guy and continue to go out with the otha guy .. i rele hope i helped =) .. let me kno how evrything works out
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Ok ive been with this guy for over a year,|we are both 16| and i love him with all my heart ( he just dont kno it) well at first it just started out as a fuck friend relationship but then over the summer we started dating. Everything was fine we got along great well we are with each other like every day and we have started to fite alot over the silliest things. well last nite we got into a big fite and he wanted to take a break but i got really upset and said no. so we just decided that i wouldnt see him for this week.I just want to kno if i should just break up wit him then go through all the drama, but i love him soo much and i dont want to loose him. Im just scared of wut he will say. can you please help!!
hey! wow thats tough .. well if you have been getting into fights alot lately it usually means that you need time apart .. just start to see other ppl and if you to still want to be together just wait awhile until you feel it is right to get back together .. so yes i do think its a good idea just to go and c other ppl .. just tlk to him and tell him how you feel .. if he rele loves you then im sure he will be okay with it .. hope i helped =) let me kno how evry thing works out
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Wut do u do when u like 2 guyz at one time
hey! personally i think its okay to like more than one boy .. as long as you u dnt have a bf .. but you dnt rele have to do ne thing .. think about which boy you like better, what kind of heart does he have, hows his personality .. stuff like that.. thats the kind of stuff you should look for in a boy .. if one of the two or both of the guys are like that then i dnt c a poblem in likeing them .. if ong of them likes you then i would try to hang out with him more often .. i hoped i helped =)
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hello well see im finally over this guy i like and i have found a new one. well im freshman and the new guy i like is a 11th grader. His step sister is in my grade and is one of my really close friends. and also my school is really small so like all my guy friends in my grade hang out with all the older guys. Well his step sister and all my guy friends say he thinks im hot and like he know i think hes hot. Well we are like trying to get togeather and hang out. but see my mom wont let me ride in a car with guys. but i mean i already do but she doesnt know. but if i did start to date him it would be hard to keep it a secert in my little town that i was dating him but it would be even harder to ride with him and not get caught. i was wondering if you had any like tips on how to get my mom to let me or how to sneak around her. oh and i mean i only have to hide it till like christmas or march depending. so can you help me?
hey! well you should either try to convince her .. like help out around the house more and act very mature and if that still dosnt work then try to sneak like pretend ur going out with a friend but ur rele going out with that guy .. hope i helped .. let me kno how evry thing works out =)
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Hey, this is like my 3rd time writing in here...I must be pretty sad, but yea o well. I will be 14 next month and I am a freshman. I have a feeling that my ex is telling his friends not 2 go out with me. i say this b-c I am always hugging 1 of his friends, and he always happens 2 be around, then he has a mad look on his face. Alos, I was going 2 go out with this really HOTT guy, but he was talking 2 my ex and then all of a sudden he doesnt want 2 go out w/me anymore! I dunno wut 2 do...my cuz said he must still like me. But what I don't get is if he still likes me then y won't he ask me out? This is really making me mad...grrr. I dunno m-b he is 2 scared 2 ask me out...well HELP ME PLEASE! Oh yea, u pplz reading this...rate this this gurl she is AWESOME!
hey! um you should rele tlk to ur ex . . ask him y hes doing this .. if hes ruining ur chances to go out with other guys i would be mad 2 ... also that could be a sign of jealousy .. he probably still likes you .. if you dnt want to be with ur x then find someone else .. that he wont be able to say negative things to .. let me kno how evry thing goes .. hope i helped =)
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Hey...im 14, a girl and just started the 9th grade a few weeks ago, there wis this one guy everyone was always talking about...all the girls from my middle school thought he was just SO hot but the girls from his middle school don't really care for him...well of course I had to fall for him...i've gotten a lot less shy when it comes to guy but I still have that "barrier" so like i got his sn and started talkin to him like the 4th week into school...I never really knew what to say to him b/c I didn't know him very well at ALL. (I love guy friends...and I wanted him to at least be one) Like he kinda seems to flirt with everyone ya know? but he flirts with me alot when i'm around him, it's akward...it's like i can't tell if he means ir or is just leading me on...the thing is, is that he doesnt really know me that well or how i behave or ne thing like that so i guess he doesnt seem to comprehend that i dont just want a "more then friend" thing outta all guys ( even thought i wouldnt mind one with him ;) ) so he kind assumes i guess that i'm just always "pushing myself on him"...one of his newer friends is like my best guy friend (even though me and him are having a shaky realtionship right now) and so like at lunch ill go and sit with my "best guy friend" so i can sit with him (no one knows that though! lol) and i just get so many mixed signals...but oh yeah...i'm white and he is too but he thinks that i date black boys and like them and all and I don't but idk for sure if he understands that or not or just like messes with me just so we have something to talk about ( ihope you understand what i mean by that, like just so that theres something he can say to me...i just had to add that too)...anyways, but...yesterday night my friend (in 10th grade) had a party and he was there too...and i found out from another friend that when he was standing with these like 3 or 4 other people he said something along the lines of that i liked him and was like "obsessed" with him...and that just really confused me! b/c i know i say that kinda stuff about people when i want ppl to know that this one guy likes me, i guess to brag in my own way or something but idk what guys mean when they do it! (he said this at like the middle of the party) but then he was like flirting with me towrds the end of the party...) idk if he just does that kinda stuff (like flirt with me and all) b/c he knows ill do it back or has figured out that i like him, but im just so confused and would love to knwo what to do! the thing is that i dont treat him any different than any of my other guy friends and dont talk to him more and in a diff. way...so thats why i said he just doesnt know how i act very well...i just dont know why he would say that i was obsessed! it just makes me feel so stupid ya know! im just so used to like recebtly all these guys that i go to school with and good friends with sayin how i could get ne one and then he comes along and is just kinda thrown in that circle and i hope he's not going to mess it up! im not going to lie i would love to have him! but...i just wanna know how he sees me! like if i really do annoy him or if he's just saying somehting differnet on the outside then on the inside ya know? and i also said that he's gettin tight with my best guy friend and he better not tear me and him apart! :-/! gosh im just so confused! just can you tell me what to do, if i should just not talk to him so he doesnt keep on thinkin im obsessed or w/e...any advice what so ever is welcome! please help me in any way you can! and i know this is a mess so hope ya can understand what i mean! ya may needa think long and hard about this response! thanks SO much! i just had to tell somebody! :-) im really really sorry its so long i just couldnt make it short! hope you arent upset....
heyy! yea that is long but i dnt mind .. yea all you can rele do is tlk to him and tell him how you feel n blah .. i dnt kno exactly wut u were trying to say but i definitly got the picture ( lol ).. you dnt want him to think ur obsessed but just tlk to him .. that the only thing you can really doo ... i rele hoped i helped .. just let me kno how evry thing went!
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Hay.. im havin boy probs.. and im onli 14... I am goin out with this boi.. but... i think it took taday to get me to relize i dont like mi boi friend as much as i thought i did!! i went down ta da river taday n theres this other guy down there that i have liked before n i think it took taday ta make me relize that i didnt like him nemore..n i like that other guy.. But i have been friends with this guy fer a while now.. n i think he likes me too.. but he's got a gurlfriend!! i dont kno what do to.!! i need advice!!
hey! well tlk to ur bf snd tlk to the kid you like.. if you dnt have feelings for ur bf then break up with him .. try to find someone else until the kid you like is ready to break up with his current gf .. hope i helped!
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Well you see..i was at secrets dance club in Albany with my girls and like..i met this guy. I love him soo much. I know that i just met him and stuff but i couldnt help it. You dont even understand how crazy i became about him. When i was there we danced together. ya know, like that dirty dancing movie kinda dancin and stuff and then he asked me out and i couldnt say no. I of corse said yes and then we hugged and stuff and then he danced with this other girl and let her wear his jersey and stuff. Some people sayi over reacted but i couldnt help it..he hurt me worse then i thought was even possible. I pushed him off of the girl and left. I cried all the way back to my house and i havnt really heard from him since. That was all on August 22 and its September 20th nnow. Ive gone back to secrets looking for him like...1,000 times! But he hasnt been there. Someone that was there last saturday said that he was the kid that i fell in love with's cousin and that he hated me...i almost cried. But he gave me the kid that i love's # and i called him but i couldnt hear him and i 4got the # and now im stuck..i fell so far in love with him that i cant even eat or sleep now..what should i do? And how do i get him back?
If you can help me out on this one you will be the greatest ever. you dont know how badly im hurt..all i want is some help to get him back so that i can heal my scats he*s left me with..Thanks oX
hey! try to tlk to him .. tlk to him about wut happened and how you felt or feel .. im sure he'll understand .. tlk to some of your friends as comfort ... all i can rele do is tell you to tlk to him .. im sure evry thing will work out ... hope i helped =) xoxoxo
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hey, I will be 14 next month, and I am in 9th grade. There is this guy that is going out w/a senior. We have gone out before. He a couple of my classes, but in those classes he is always staring at me. We r really good friends, so I dunno if this means he likes me again. HELP!
hey! tlk to him ... to c wuts up .. ask y hes staring at u and all that .. he probably likes you but u wont kno for sure unless u tlk to him! hope i helped =)
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Ok there's this kid named Chris and he's pretty much all my classes. Sometimes I'll just glance over at him and hes like looking at me or staring at me. The thing is I never really talk to him or anything. I just wanted to know if he likes me? I don't think so but you can never tell! Thanks! I rate!
hey! well u should tlk to him and ask y hes stareing at you and that stuff .. im sure he probably likes you .. thats wut most guys do when they like someone but dont jump into all of that .. just tlk to him first and then u can determin wheather or not he likes you .. hope i was of help :) please rate .. hehe..thnks!
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