Hey everyone My names Melanie (you can call me Mel). I'm 17 and live in Massachusetts. I love theatre. Acting is one of my favorite things to do. I also like to paint, sing and dance. I want to be on Brodway someday. I'm a very loyal and trustworthy person and I love giving advice to people. If I don't get on Brodway then I would love to be a phycatrist and help people deal with their problems. Ask me anything and I'd love to help you. If you wanna just talk IM me at cheesebaginmytea or email me at MCB0112@cs.com.
E-mail: MCB0112@cs.com
Gender: Female
Location: Massachusetts
Age: 17
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Hi, I'm Caitlin and I'm completely in love with this guy name Gary. Throughout my entire life I've never been lucky with things like love and all that...mostly love. I've never had a boyfriend, I've never kissed and I've never really had any feeling for anyone before. I have no idea how to tell him I like him. I reallt want to! I feel as if i'm ready, but he's such a hard person to read and I don't know if he likes me back. We've been hanging out for about a month and I know that's it's no simple crush. I'm seirously in love with this guy. Now I know i'm not the best looking person in the world, but I know i'm not ugly either. I also know that what I look like wouldn't mean all that much to him.
So bascially my questions is; How do I tell him I like him without scaring im off? (link)
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Aww that's great!! Im so happy for you!! I dont know why but when I read your question, I just felt so happy. lol! I know that sounds weird but oh well. Well now Caitlin, you can aproach him in a couple of different ways. You can go right up in his face and tell him exactly how you feel, but that could scare him off depending on his feelings for you. You could be secretive and write him a note explaining yourself and leave it in his locker or something. Or you could flirt with him when you're together and see if he gets the hint and asks you out himself. If he doesnt end up liking you back, it's not the end of the world. Sometimes guys just need more time to find their feelings and he might figure out that he does like you later on. I hope everything works out for you and gary. Just never lose faith that it will work out. My best friend Sara liked this guy Sean for 2 years while he was going out with this terrible girl Jillian. Well it turns out that Sean actually liked Sara for a year before he got the courage to dump Jillian and ask out Sara. He finally did and Sara and Sean have been happily going out for almost a year now. Love is weird but I hope it all works out for you! Good luck and tell me how things work out!
~Mel~
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I used to be very fond of this guy a lot and sort of those feelings still remain with me to this day. The thing is that this guy I'm sure has moved on and I'm nearly there when it comes to this. I mean this guy has put me through so much and although we don't talk, it's like I know him . He hangs out with other girls now, and he's more popular now . I don't want to be with him, but it's just that it seems like all of my friends are liking him. My feelings for him are still yet causing me insecurities .I just want to know why he can't look at me, and I want to know why he's going out with all those girls . I need advice on how to get real closure and I mean real, real, closure. Don't tell me time . I've spent three years with time . Just please. Help me . Oh and if it's time, then make sure that you have a good explanation please and some tips . Thanxs to yah (link)
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Is this guy an ex or an old crush? If he's an ex then he might think it would be awkward for you two to be friends again. He doesn't know that you still have feelings for him? You have to talk to him, hun. I know it might be uncomfortable to tell him about your feelings but it's what you have to do. Maybe he could even feel the same way. You will never know until you talk to him. I hope you can work everything out. He might just be an asshole like some gs are. My ex Ryan flirted with this other girl before we broke up. I confronted him after the breakup about the girl, but he said he would never like her because she is such a flirt. Less then a week later they were going out. Some guys are jerks like that. But just keep thinking, there's a perfect man out there for every girl and when you meet him I'm sure you will know. Please tell me what happens!!! I hope I helped.
Good Luck!!
-Mel
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i need ideas on how to convince a girl that i really do love her...so please give me some good ideas ill rate a five (link)
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Ooo man. Send her a rose and if she asks why just say because she means so much to you. When you look at her always smile and look deep into her eyes like shes the most wonderful thing you've ever seen. If you truely do love her, this won't be hard for you. And if none of that works, she doesn't deserve a guy that would be willing to do that much for a girl anyway. Good luck!
-Melanie
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