i'm hannah. thanks ana and mikela for "inspiring" me to do this. yeah well. i like hearing peoples problems and giving them my input because sometimes it helps with my own issues! so please send me some decent questions cause your wasting your time if theyre fake! but dont hesitate to send any other ones even if they may sound stupid
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well me and this guy had been going out on and off for about 2 years and he just recently broke up w/ me and its relli hard because everytime i go to my room i cry i hate it and he lives farr away but that doesnt matter to niether of us! and we tlk all the time what should i do to stop crying so much?? im 14 and yea
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well first, do you know why he broke up with you?
and if you dont know, then you really should find out because it will probably make it a little easier to actually understand why he broke up with you.
and even though yall were "on and off", you guys were still together for two years, thats a long time. and you cant expect yourself to be extremely strong about it at first, its hard and it will be hard. but give it time, and when you feel stable enough just try to go back and think about what good things have come out of this experience. and it may not seem like it now but with every heartbreak you learn so much more than the one before. becuase you get a little bit stronger everytime.
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okay me and this guy have been going on and off for quite a long time. he said he used to love me and i fell for it. i really did love him. he sometimes makes me cry when we get in arguments. and i know he lies to me about some things. it's really obvious. i know this sounds kind of selfish, but he doesn't like it when i talk on the phone with other guys, so i stopped that for awhile. and i put an effort to stop it. but then he talks on the phone with other girls too. recently he told me i could talk to otehr guys because he'd be being a hypocrite. but shouldn't a couple always want to talk to eachother if he really loved me? but when those things are set aside, everything is perfect to me. i gave him plenty of chances. we went out too many times to count. and i'm tired of getting my heart broken. but if for some reason he says he likes me again and wants to go back out with me again and i feel that he changes, should i go back out with him? (link)
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he says he used to love you? well. i've thought that i stopped loving someone, when really i was just overthinking everything and making things sound way worse than they actually were. so maybe hes just confused and needs to really think about how he really feels. Because if yall have gotten back together so many times than there must still be somethign there. and everyone gets upset in an argument! dont worry hes not treating you horrible or anything.
the lieing? well. it really depends on what he's lieing about. although, lieing doesnt help and they could start out small and if you blow them off then he'll think its okay and then the lies could become bigger. but if its not huge, and if you explain to him that youd ont like his lieing then i wouldnt worry.
i completely understand that your tired of getting your heartbroken. really i think you just need to think of the good things about being in this relationship and compare them to the bad things. and if the bad outweigh the good and he wants to get back together, then i would really think twice about what decision to make. because he could totally convince you that he's changed but, hasnt he done that all the other times that yall have gotten back together? you just have to ask yourself these questions before setting yourself up for another heartbreak =\
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How can you tell if the person you're kissing and/or making out with is truthfully enjoying it and not just faking satisfaction in order to continue getting more lip action? (link)
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well. if they dont like it then they wont fake anything cause they wont really want to continue making out with you...
and ALSO who cares if its enjoyable for them...as long as your havin fun!! hahah!
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I'm sorry this is a REALLY REALLY weird question i know i know but here it goes...is there a difference between a jewish guys penis and lets say another religeons penis? On this show this girl saw this guy naked and was like "apparently your not jewish" or something like that and i really had no idea what they were talking about!! Sorry again but i'd appreaciate it if you could help! (link)
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HOLY CRAP!! me and my friend were JUST watching this show. by the way its pretty good. lol and yeah sometimes there is a difference. some jewish people are circumsized. i'd rather not go into detail about that but...yes that is the only difference.
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ok well, theres this guy who ive hung out with once, and only once. he likes me and im number one on his myspace. i dont like him at all...and hes not even on my myspace. he has aim and keeps iming me and asking for my number but i dont wanna give it to him bc i dont want him to call me because hes kinda annoying...what should i do?
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if you guys only hung out once and he likes you...then you must really be something special and new to him. think about what it is youdont like about him and decide if you could overlook that and maybe try hooking up with him. and if not then talk to him and tell him that your not sure if you have the same kind of feelings for him. and though it may be hard, it would hurt him alot more to lead him on. so just tell him how you feel, trust me. if hes not a wackjob then he'll understand
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what should i do? i fucked around with one guy, and he didnt use condoms. weve fucked more than 7 times and he hasent used a condom either time because he says that the first time he did, it broke. and now hes with some other girl a year older than me. and hes only with her bc she has birth control... and i think im pregnant. i also had sex with him in my friends bed and she doesnt know about it yet. how should i tell her? and what should i do? (link)
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well. this guy must mean alot to you if you've gone this far with him. and even if you chose to be sexually active at this age then you should at least have some kind of protection. and if he's only with someone else because of birth control, then maybe he's not as crazy for you as youa re for him, not to say he doesnt like you, but no one deserves to be rejected cause of a reason like that. and about the bed thing? well...is it absolutely necessary to tell her? i mean if she asks dont lie but...it seems like there was no harm done!
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