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I'm young, but learning about life every single minute. I make bad decisions sometimes, but I never regret them.And though I sometimes dont know what to do, I know what I should do. Thats why I want to help people.I want to help them prevent the mistakes I'm learning on my own.So yeah, thats pretty much it.

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I'm not allowed to date....but i have a boyfriend..but if my dad finds out he will like kill me!!! i dont know what to do!!!!!!!!

Ok. Well, the obvious thing is to not let him find out. It may not even last that long. But then again, what if you really start liking your boyfriend like a lot and want to make it official with your parents and everything? The best thing to do is to mature up, start doing chores and acting mature and responsible. Then sit with your parents and tell him that you think you can handle a relationship. Point out all the things you do, and maybe that will convince him. Even if he's not convinced, taking a risk and introducing your boyfriend to him may change his mind.

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okay well there is this guy that asked me out last year && i saw no. but now i regret it..because i guess i like him now..but now he is going out with my friend && everybody is like saying they are PERFECT for each other..&& i heard that he brought her a ring from jared`s && now i can`t stop thinking that it could have been me. but i`m not sure if i tell him he likes me he might reject me && me && my friend may not like me anymore..

Before you do anything, think. "Is he something you might risk your friendship for?" I mean, relationships come and go, but friendships last trough years. If you did tell him, and he dumped her for you, your friend would be hurt. And on top of that mad at you. And all those people would probably look at you in a bad way. And theres also the possibility he might say no. Then what? You would lose almost everything. Maybe you dont even like him that much. Maybe you're a bit jealous of your friends having something that could of been yours. You shouldnt try to take it away from her now. Just ignore it, something better will come your way. Or maybe they'll brake up and you'll have another chance with him. Then you wont look like a bad person in front of everyone.

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well theres this boy i think he likes me but im not sure we always talk on the phone abd stuff
he always joking around and stuff to!

how can u tell when he likes you??

Well, you could always see what he does for you. Like he's talking to some friends, if you go up to him and ask if you guys could talk in private and he agrees, it's kind of hinting that he does. Just flirt with him, see what his reaction is. If he flirts back, you definetely have his heart.

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well im relle upset right now because ok i liked this guy in one of my classes well this girl i didnt know that well kinda figured it out and started becoming my friend but she relle just pumped me for information about this guy and then told him that iliked him and a bunch of stuff i didnt do or say and he believd her and now i dont know what to do i think im over it but i feel used.....i feel so bad right now im so mad right now....:(

It's normal to feel used after someone you trusted backstabbed you, but dont let this bring you down. Remember karma, what goes around comes around. Dont do anything bad to her to get even, be nice to her and make her regret saying bad things. Eventually she'll get punished by luck. And about the guy, dont feel embarrased and just go talk to him. Ask him what she said and then tell him it's not true. I mean, if he believed her why wouldnt he believe you?

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