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There is this boy... lets call him Andy! I really like Andy... but how can I tell him again? I went out with him before because he liked me... but that was only for a day! He has a girlfriend that is like really nice to me and I dont want to break them up... And I dont want his girlfriend to get mad at me and not want to talk to me ever again! I know they love eachother because on their shirts his girlfriend wrote I love Andy and Andy wrote I love (his girlfriend) Just because i am afraid to talk to him does that mean i dont like him? Whenever i talk to him i talk all like flirty but i dont know if we have anything. I really dont want to break him and his girlfriend up but IIIIIII really like him.... I think.... :(....... AHH HELP!!!! (link)
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First of all, you need to figure out if you like him or not. Be honest to yourself, and really think hard about it. But until you figure it out, there is no sense in kiling yourself over him. He's obviously happy about his relationship at the moment, so you should just wait. But don't get too worked up over it. Things will get better over time. If you really like him, you'll let him be, because you should be happy that he's in love and that he's having a good time. No matter how much you might like this guy, you should be happy for him. Hopefully, he'll notice that you care about him so much. And try to be friends with him. He needs at least some sort of hint that you're interested, even if he is already taken.
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I'm 13 years old, a girl, and I go to school with this boy. We are always flirting and I like him a lot. I would like to date him, but he has a girlfriend. He is wonderful, and I would do anything to go out with him. Is there anyway to get him to like me more than her? or some other way for him to dump her and to be with him? Any way for me to be with him is ok, I am open to any suggestions. (link)
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I know what that is like. First of all, you need to keep talking to him, but keep your flirting friendly. Next, it's okay to want him to end his relationship with his girlfriend, but you can't do anything about it. Just be patient, and keep talking to him. And make sure you don't make it too obvious you like him. That might turn him away. Guys like hard-to-get girls. Trust me on that one. But like i said, be persistent about being his friend. I'm not sure if he'll immediately fall in love with you, but it should keep you near him alot. You won't lose him anytime soon. And when he does break up with his girlfriend, you might be his first choice ;)
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