My name is Matthew Allos and I am a senior in high school. I live my life random everyday and live life to the fullest. I am a very very veryyyyyy funny person and I can laugh to almost anything funny to me. My friends tell me im good at giving advice and I love giving advice to anybody.
E-mail: mallos731@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Age: 17
Member Since: March 28, 2009
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for the past two and a half years, i had been dating my bestfriend, he was everything to me. we were bestfriends before we started dating for a year. Recently we broke up, and then i found out he was cheated on me multiple times over summer. and now, a week later he has a girlfriend. it is so hard to deal with this, i h avent been single for two and a half years. and its so hard because i was always with him, and i was friends with him before, and the friends i had before there gone and moved on with there lives. and the friends i have no, aren't reliable. i'm trying to make new friends but no one seems to care, or want to hangout with me.
what am i supposed to do? like i feel so lonely.
i just want to get over him but i cant seem to do that because i dont go out because i dont have friends anymore (link)
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Let me tell you something, if the guy cheated on you multiple times while you guys were going out and got a gf a week after you 2 broke up, you shouldnt give a damn about him anymore. I can understand if ur getting over him but you need 2 let him go and not care for him anymore because it seems liike he doesnt care either. Its ok that you feel lonely after a 2 and a half year relationship, anyone would. Theres plenty of places to meet people. Local gym, nightclubs, bar, and if u go to school that helps 2. Theres a big world out there, dont be afraid to explore it.
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What do girls do to give signals or hints? Theres a girl at school and she calls me.........bear(dont ask) Also when she sees me and she hasnt seen me for a couple of classes she will hug me from behind for a second or two. Is she dropping off signs or is this something girls do to guys?
By the way I'm 13(m) (link)
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Im not a girl sorry but I think shes into you little guy. Giving you a nickname and hugging you from behind is a hint that she wants you to be hers. Mayb you should give it a shot and ask her out?
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I HATE MY EX BOYFRIEND! he acts like he still loves me and then he ditches me to smoke. im fourteen. i want to show him that im done with him but idk how... help? (link)
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Ignore him for a while and show that your having fun without him and he will take notice and be jealous of you
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ok so before me and my ex dated we were best friends. i mean i would cry to him about other guys and crap. we broke up back in december after 7 months. and like we still hooked up for a while but then we cut it off. and we were just like lets be friends. we tried to make it like before but it wasn't perfect but i was ok with it. but now he got mad for some stupid reason and won't talk to me. and i NEED him in my life. i tried talking to him but he said don't. and i don't know what to do. cause i have 2 classes and lunch with him so its hard to ignore him. and its so difficult cause i feel like i have no one to go too.
so, what could i do to cope with this all? or get us to be friends again? (link)
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Judging through my experience, he doesnt want to talk to you because he could be in love with you. Being best friends for so long and dating for 7 months and you guys breaking up looks like hes mad at you that you guys arent together and it just hurts him knowing that you and him will not be together. He probably doesnt want to be "just friends" again. The way he probably sees it is that if you 2 arent together then he doesnt want to be with you. But if you only see him as a friend and he doesnt than there is almost no way of talking to him again unless you 2 are together. If he loved you then hed rather have you in his life as a friend then not having you at all.
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