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Hi there! My name is Heather Marie Warren, I'm 17, and I'm a teen adviser who would like to help answer any questions that you may have about teen life and beyond.

If you need help with anything, please feel free to ask me, or visit my friend's website at www.freewebs.com/bt4t You'll receive lots of support there. Also, feel free to join the site. New members are always welcome.

Please note that I am not a professional adviser but I will do my best to answer any of your questions. I'm currently studying Contract Law, English Literature, Modern History, Maths, Further Maths and Spanish so if you have questions concerning those subjects, I may be able to help.

Thank you

-Heather-

advice

hate me? i realy dont know how to talk to her i mean i have things i could talk about but when i see her im confused what to do and this year we have no classes together and ive been waiting for before she sorta tried to avoid me by a door on the way out to the buses to go home oh im sorry i forgot to mention this im shy especialy around her i dont know what to say to her and when i stand by the door waiting for her i think that i think if i was a girl that would be creepy i guess she means more to me then the world but i dont want people to make fun of her for me likeing her and she doesnt like me
i love her and i think shes realy smart and she is but i guess i can see if she hates me why
shes awesome but i guess im just a lame nerd shes popular and im not im fat tall stupid and shy .but shes perfect in my eyes and head i like her personality but not her friends and one creeps me out i dont know what to look for in signs that she likes me i think she might be shy or unsure so i dont know can u help me find ways to talk to her and get rid of my shyness and fear of her hating me?

I used to be shy. Don't worry about it, it's something that you can grow out of. And don't put yourself down so much, you seem like a very considerate person and that's what matters most. One way for you to talk to her would be to wait outside where the buses come to collect people and don't worry, she wont think you're creepy for doing that. And if you can't think of anything to say, maybe start by saying 'Hi, I haven't seen you for a while' or 'Hi, how are you?' Or if you pass her in the hallways, be sure to smile and say hi and if you see her sat on her own at any point in the library or in the dinner hall then go over and sit with her.

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im the one who asked the does she like me or hate me question ? should i ask her for her email cause im not sure if i should and since your a girl you can tell me better cause you have a better point of view

I think that's a good idea and maybe offer her your mobile/home phone number too and then see if she offers you hers.

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im a guy im 13. i like this girl alot and i told her last school year on valentines day in a love letter and i dont know if she likes me and i did ask her in the letter if she liked me but never said a thing. i talked to her this year and i asked her if she read it she said yesthen i asked her what she thought she said something but it was realy realy quite it sounded like a hamber siziling then i said say something even if its stupid which now i think was stupid but she laughed then i told her why cause
i didnt want to annoy her then now we hardly talk or never but every time we see ecother i look at her then the looks at me but she doesnt talk to me any more but she talks to this other boy alot but i think their friends cause every one thinks hes not straight and he agreed i think but her friends like sheild her away from me and my friends sorta do the same does me like me or does she hate me but to nice to say that???????????????

She certainly doesn't hate you. In fact, I get the feeling that she's a little overwhelmed. Keep making an effort to talk to her but try not to mention relationships and feelings too much because she probably needs time to think about how she feels. Don't let her push you away though. Talk to her, share your interests with her and ask what she's interested in. Perhaps eat lunch together but make sure there are some mutual friends there as well so she doesn't feel pressured.

The best advice I can give you is to give her time to think about this but at the same time, make an effort to become friends with her and perhaps that friendship will grow into something stronger.

Good luck and I hope this helps,

Heather xx

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kk so i really like this guy but aperantly he likes me and ma homegurl too supposely he likes me more then her but he is mostly looking for her and he flirts alott with me soo his a confusing guy and i dont know if he likes me or her more
how can i find out who he really likes and no she dosnt like him ..

Hi there! That's a tricky question but the solution is simple - you need to trust him. If he says he likes you best, then take his word for it because all relationships are built on trust and his actions will show if he's being honest with you. Of course, there's the added bonus that this other girl doesn't like him back so really you've nothing to lose.

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