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I desided to make an advice column and its workin out pretty good! dont be afraid to ask me anything ill write back as soon as i can(which is soon lol) iv been thu a lot and if heard everything so im almost certan i can help you well ask away!

I love you all
Nicole

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Ok I'm 14 and I have a boyfriend but he was with his girlfriend for i think 7 mouths before he went out with me. He broke up with her cause she was being gay and haning out wit other guys idk weve been goin out almost a month. He says he loves me but he never calls and we're completely happy together when were together but we live in different towns and every guy at my school tells me to dump him and let them have a chance and I love my boyfriend but idk if he loves me enough to make this work and i dont know if he has someone else either. What should i do?

hum well first you got to talk to him face to face becuz IF he is lieing then you'll be able to tell better in person.Dont lisen to guys becuz they just want u to break up with him so they can have you and unless u want them just dont do it.If u want him to call u more u gotta talk to him about it and you should call him too. As for his ex you cant expect him to just forget about her becuz that is a really hard thing to do u just have to respect the fact that he is with you now and is moving on with his life.just talk to him and give it a while if u still feel like its not going good then do what u have to do but dont jump to conclusions.

hope i helped
love
Nicole

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Hey Nicole!,

Ok this question's probably gonna sound weird, but what are some good ways to flirt with guys that know you like them?

well dont make it wicked obveouse that your flirting becuz he already knows you like him so instead of being a dead give away make him have to guess give him your best "you wish you knew"look dont follow him around to much or only talk to him but when he does talk to you give him your attention like make eye contact(not in a freaky way tho dont forget to blink lol)when ur two are talking make sure ur not straight faced have a little smerk of a smile on. what ever you do dont be annoying about it like laughing histaricly at his jokes acting stupid to get his attention just be suddle about it

hope i helped
Love
Nicole

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Hi,

Well I have a problem, how are you supposed to act around someone you like after they know you like them? Cus it's hard to act yourself so what do you do if you can't think of anything to say or how to act?
Thanks

well if u dont act your self its going to be really ocward around them so do what ever you can to be urself if ur going to a movie and they are going to before u leave think of things to talk about or just run thru everything in your head untill if feels more comfterble to be around eachother. If you smile all the time push your self to smile when ur are around them make it as comfterble as you can so that you dont end up avoiding each other

hope i helped
Love,
Nicole

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Hi Hawaii,

I have a question...How do you tell someone you like them without being like... I LIKE YOU!
I really need to know!
Thanks!

well u dont have to say I LIKE YOU lol but dont play games it annoys ppl just tell them

Hope i helped
love
nicole

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Nikki!!!!!

i jus wanted to say i love u soo much! nd im wikd happy ur n most of my classes! ur such a great friend, thanks for always being there ur the bestttt ever! we've been thru everything nd everything always happns to us at the same time lol ur such a nice person, even to ppl u dont even kno... i kno this yrs guna b the best, specially cuz kyle =) ily girlie nd nothing culd eva change that!!!! thanks for absolutely EVERYTHING!!!!! dont change babe i got luv for u haha..

- ur banana

awwwww i love you too man!!your the best girlie...aww haha this year is gonna me so much fun the bus is the best part lol i love you!!
NIcole

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Hi,

Well i have a problem. I like this guy and he used to like me but i'm not sure if he does anymore. When he liked me i didn't like him that much...but i do know ... all my friends think he probably still likes me but i don't know. I get really agravated when he talks to other girls though because i get jealous i guess, and i wish it was still me. because i never get the chance to talk to him. What should i do?
Please Help

well if he used to like you then it prolly wont be to hard to make him like you again. does he know you like him? if he doesnt then you should really tell him lol. just flirt with him n stuff tell ur friends you like him so that you wont have too much compation just be urself(it worked once didnt it) good luck

hope i helped
love
nicole

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okay i am a girl(13) and i am not exactly the skinniest grl in the world and my best friend always has guys like swarming around her and i hate seeing that and i think that she can tell and like when ever she breaks up with someone she does a lot of flirting i mean like it is okay to flirt and all but she goes wayy over the line and ya i think i only think that because i want to have a boyfriend and i have asked out soo many guys out before and they all say that they see me as a really good friend and sometimes i think that they are just lineing and when i do play those retareded games like suck and blow( you take a peice of paper and you have to like blow it in there lips kinda and they suck it in w/e, and if you drop it you have to kiss) i have dropped it once and i "pretended" do say like oh i didnt know that rule or something like that because i am afraid to kiss a guy and i am NOT les. so ya lolol and i am just afriad that i will do it wrong! lol do you know how i am get over my fear of kissing lol thx ~Lost

kissing for the first time with the wrong guy is really really scary. i mean i know the feeling in your tummy. honistly if its not the right guy its not gonna be "not scarey" i was lucky cuz the first guy i kissed was really right for me and it just flowed.When you kiss someone you forget all your worrys about doing it right and it just comes nateral and i promise after the first kiss you heart with slow down a bit and you will just go with it.Dont worry about it so much if it happends it happends and there really is no "wrong way to kissing" you get better as u go.

Hope i helped
love
nicole

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Im going out with this boy...( im a girl- 13) but im scared to do anything with him cuz ive never kissed or anything and i dont know how.. and i think that all he wants.. like most guys.But i also like one of my best friends (hes a boy)what do i do?

well as for your boyfriend and kissing him dont worry ok i know how u feel like ur gonna mess up or do it wrong but trust me it comes naterual its like dancing (well the first time at least) he will kinda lead u thru it and ull get it right away just lick ur lips before u kiss him and dont wear lip gloss cuz its sticky and chew some mints if u know its gonna happen even if u did brush ur teath lol. and if u really think that he only wants u to make out dont waist ur first kiss on him cuz its not worth why dont u tell ur guy friend that you like him and see where it goes from there

Hope i helped
Love
Nicole

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okay..me and my friend were hanging out with both of our best friend's first love. and they still have feelings for these guys. but we were just hanging out and things got carried away and we ended up fucking them. we both lost our virgintiy to our best friend's ex boyfriends, who they were in love with. should we tell them? and what do we say?

Well if you tell them then for sure you are going to lose them as friends i mean. What would you do if they did that to you. But if you dont tell them they are going to find out from someone else and its going to be even worse. So if i were you i would tell them. Dont make ne thing up to make it like it was ok like saying i was drunk or something like that becuz its not going to make them feel better. You got to tell them straight up what you did no excuses and dont tell them online or on the phone becuz even tho its realllly hard to say it to their face u gotta show them respect they deserve to be told in person. you just gotta be brave. Just be more careful next time because friends are everything.

Good luck
Love
Nicole

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nicole wat do u do wen u pee alot?

its not a bad thing unless u cant controll it go to the doctor if thats the case

Love
Nicole

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nicole, i went out with this guy like 3 years okay and then we had this horrible break up and didnt speak to each other for 2 years now we talk and we still have feelings left for each other. alot of feelings. and he recently told one of my friends he wanted to go bak out with me. and i would love more then anything to go bak out with him. but theres two things stopping me, we might have a bad break up again and not speak to each other and the other thing is he isnt very advanced. like he doesnt like to be touchy-feely. and i probaly would have to make the first move to do stuff. should i still give it a try?

Everyone Deserves a second chance. Try it you'll no if you should break it off if u think its coming to and end again then just break up at least u tryed but if u dont try then ull never know and honistly if u went out for 3 years i dont think it really matters what i say ur gonna go back out with him if there are still feelings .just dont hurt urself by Trying to holdon if it turns out it was rigth to break up in the first place

Hope i helped

Love
Nicole

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Ok so I just got a new boyfriend, but he's not really like a boyyfriend to me. We hang out everyday but that's about it...it feels very akeward to me and I don't know what to do. Everyone thinks I am so lucky to be going out with him, and I don't wanna break up with him, but what should I do?

Well you should always go with your heart i mean if it doesnt feel right then why keep it going.Maybe you should wait a little while maybe it will feel more nataral when you get to know eachother as boyfriend and girlfriend more. But it things arnt feeling right after a while then do what makes you happy.

Love,
Nicole

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nikki you know me and we all know what my problem is,, well we all know that i love my best guy friend but he also has a girlfriend, what should i do?????
your never gonna guess who this is

Well theres really nothing you can do if you dont tell him how you feel.I mean i know thats scary but if you ever want to have anything with him you have to tell him. I know your afraid of breaking your relationship but you gotta take chances.If hes really your bestfriend he prolly already knows

Hope i helped
Love,
Nicole

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well i have this friend and hes 16 and im 14 and hes from near boston and im from cape cod. ive only talked to him a few times and ive talked to his friend a lot. my bestfriend kinda likes his friend too. they wanna come down and see us. what do u think i should do?

you guys should hang out it sounds fun!

have fun
Nicole

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what do you do when your boyfriend tells some one else that he loves them?

well theres not much you can do if someone loves someone there really isnt anything you can do to stop it. I mean he can love her but not want to be with her. Just talk to him about it. Maybe its a good idea to break up but you never know till you find out whats going on in his head you dont want to make a big mistake over something that ends up being not a big deal. its almost impossible to stop loving someone so its not really his fault

Hope i helped
Love
Nicole

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hey nicole i asked you for advice about my friend and the guy i liked..and you told me i should tell her that i like him..but if i tell her she will give him up for me again like she did before and i was wanting to know if you still thought i should tell her.

well if you dont want her to give him up for you then just tell her that you dont want her to and you just told her becuz she is your best friend and you tell her everything.

hope i helped
Love
Nicole

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Ok. I have a very special guy in my life that has been there for me for everything. We were going out for a very long time, but then broke up. But when we saw each other or talked to each other we acted as if we were still a couple. We did ever thing together and everything I do reminds me of him. He was my first love and I can't get over him no matter what I do. I just want to be with him, but it won't work out because I'm forbidden to see him. Now he is moving far away...what should I do?

Gosh that is heartbreaking well it looks like you really dont have a choice. Long distent relationshps are really hard exspetialy when you are forbiden to see him.Just try and keep in touch as much as you can try to find someone who can help you fill the empty space a little bit that lives by you.Who knows he could move back.you will prolly always have feelings for eachother and when he visits you it will most likely feel like you just saw him yesterday. So try not to be so depressed i do know how you feel though

wish i could help more

Love
Nicole

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ok, well there is this guy ive know for a while now. and ive liked him and and he liked me.. so finnally we stopped keeping in our feelings and told eachother. its been a while since we told eachother but we havent gone out yet. he told me he doesnt wanna go out with me because he is scared to loose me. like if we break up he is scared that i will be mad at him or me break up with him and him be mad at me. so he just doesnt wanna loose me. and this guy is really sweet and all.. but he is like.. really weird into the hugging and kissing girl friends.. he is kinna immature too. should i just stay friends or try and get him to change? or should i just let him relize he has to change and if he does then ill try to work it out with him. thanks for listening

Something that most ppl try to do is change ppl but the thing is ppl dont change because you want them to you cant mold a person into who you want them to be if they change its because they grew up or went thru something that changed there lives you know something like that. If you really like this guy and you think you should try a relationship take it real slow so that no one ends up getting hurt if it doesnt work out. If it does you can tell him that it bothers you when he hugs other girls and stuff.And if you do break up make it a clean break dont let anything go unanswered because thats what makes ppl not wanna talk to eachother. Tell you friend that you have to take chances in life to live at all. Even if hes a little scared to loose you he should give it a chance because who knows you two could be ment for eachother

hope i helped

Love
Nicole

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hey nicole..okay i've been alone for awhile now..see i had this guy i liked and i just found out that my bestfriend has liked this guy for the longest time and recently i found out my bestfriend has been crushing on him for the longest time and the confusing part is my bestfriend hooked us up while she liked him..now that i know she has suck strong feelings for him i've decided to put every feeling aside and hook them up..but the thing is i think i have feelings for him but i cant tell my bestfriends because they are my bestfriends..so i've let my feelings go because thats what she did for me..i want to know if i've done the right thing by mot telling her or him..thanks

These are the hardest situations. Its eather your happyness or your friends. I guess you did do the right thing you must be really good friends to be able to do that for each other.It prolly isnt a very good idea to tell him that you have feelings for him if you want him and your friend to hook up but you should tell your friend if you feel that you need too.Just see how things go.

Hope i helped a little

Love
Nicole

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is it possible to like someone a lot and u havent even known them a week?

yea you can like them a lot imean if you like them you like them theres not much to it

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