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I am currently a junior and I'm on the gymnastics team at my high school. Out of all my friends I'm the one that people go to when they need to talk about something, need advice, etc. Overall I think I'm pretty good at helping people solve their problems.
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Age: 16
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Me and my friend are going to New York this weekend. Were both 15 and we both have boyfriends that are 17. Then last night my boyfriend called me and told me that he was going to new york with my friends boyfriend and their brothers, who are in our grade. Well my boyfriend came over this afternoon and he told me he loves me (not for the first time) but we're both virgins and he talked about having sex this weekend at the hotel. I'm still not totally sure I want to, I asked a question on this before, but this is different... if i have any doubts do you think i should go for it or not? cause this is my one and only chance to be with my boyfriend for the whole weekend in a hotel.. if anyone can help please do!
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if you have any doubt whatsoever don't do it. you and i are still both at such young ages that thoughts of sex frequently cross our minds. And that this boy "may be the one". as corny as this is going to sound, after talking to my parents, yes my parents lol, i realized that majority of high school relationships don't last into college and live happily ever after. so my advice don't wait until your older and have had more experience in dealing with "maybe he's the one"


ok my bestest friend the world ((lets call her D)) is going out w/ one of my Really close guy friends ((lets call him C)) and yesterday, D was talking to one of C's friends, let's call him J..and D said "if you tell me what C's getting me for christmas, i'll do Anything" and after awhile of persauding, J asked to makeout. and then eventually D and J both admited they had feelings for eachother. and they were all like planning where and when they were gonna do it. and J never even told her what C got her! and then D said to J "i think i'm just gonna dump C after all this, bc i like you more" so my question is, should i tell C..me and him are Really Really close..but on the other hand D is my BESTfriend and she'd get mad if i told him..ahhh helpppp I RATE HIGH!!! (link)
I think you should talk to your D and let her know how you feel about her going behind C's back with his friend. Let her know that cheating on someone is not a good thing and that if other people find out about this they probably won't think the best of her (if she even cares what others think). Personally I would not go and tell C about this because you would be getting in the middle of D and C's relationship and somehow one of them would get mad at you. Just tell D to approach C about it and end their relationship before C gets hurt anymore.




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