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what are some things that a girl can do to a guy that will turn them on? (link)
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A guy gets turned on by almost everything. You can be like "I have boobs" *boner* haha The thing that almost never fails is talking dirty to him. Tell him all the things you want to/are gonna do to him. When you guys make out, make sure you hlget as close to him as possible. kiss him while you're sitting on his lap. Body to body contact. And follow everything the girl below me said lol
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i like guys but I think about gurls a lot.. does that make me gay? (link)
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Most girls go through a bicurious stage. It's probably just temporarily or you could be bisexual. Just give it time and you'll figure it out [: good luck
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My boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago..we were dating for about 3 months.He was my first REAL boyfriend (im 17) and it was like a real relationship where we talk and hangout and bond ALOT .So you could say for my first relationship it was pretty serious.He broke up with me because "he started to see me as a friend and i was clingy" .I had no idea this was coming so i was devastated.He went on vacation and will be back on Thursday and hasn't spoken to me since the breakup ..except one text .I've been an absolute wreck ,crying the minute i wake up,being upset most of the day and probably crying during the day and ofcourse at night too for the last 4 days. Each day is harder for me because all the songs on my ipod,we used to listen to and he used to sing to me and he would point out his favorite songs and i have to avoid listening to my ipod.I also have to avoid driving by a park we used to go to,certain words I say/he used to say,foods we used to eat all the time,games we played,movies,a whole bunch of stuff and it's so hard to avoid these things.Ive been taking advice from everyone and not speaking to him or communicating with him at all costs,(which I wrote him a letter and hope to give it to him the day after he comes back) .Ive been occupying myself very much,but even while I'm occupying myself ..i still think of him and all the good times (because we havent had many bad ones and our break up wasn't even a fight or a nasty breakup ..it was just sad).It seems like no matter how occupied or busy I am..i still think of him and get sad.I just want him back or I want to get over him.What techniques have worked to get over guys FAST? because I can't take the crying anymore! (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. Been there. Done that. I'm sorry you guys broke up but at least now you have time to focus on yourself. You're still gonna cry but there's nothing you can do about that. I was in a funk for a really long time and the fact that my ex was friends with all of my friends an I had to see him everyday, it was worse. Don't think about all the good times, think about all if the positive things that came with the break up. Don't listen to music for a while because someway you'll find a way to relate everything to him. Hang out with people that care about you. If you have a best friend you can do what I do, have a "venting session" with him/her. Trust me, it helps A LOT. Only give him the letter if you REALLY want to. He will probably see you as someone to fall back on, which is not good. If you don't give him the letter, do NOT keep it because when you get over him you will probably wanna read it and it will just bring you back to where you are now. Statistics say it takes six months to fully get over someone but you'll be good by then [:
Btw. You're probably not clingy. A lot of guys don't understand if a girl really cares about them they want to be with him everytime they have the chance. Be patient. A better guy will come along.
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