Gender:
FemaleLocation:
TeXaSOccupation:
Student?Age:
15Member Since:
October 28, 2004Answers:
31Last Update:
November 26, 2004Visitors:
3161Favorite Columnists
kt
Main Categories:
Love Life
Friendship
Families
View All
about
Hey I'm Erin! Ask me if you need advice or just have a suggestion! ThAnKs EvErYoNe! SiNcE YoUr HeRe, AsK Me! **ErIn**
body {background: url('http://www.boomspeed.com/sfhelpers/backgrounds/672.gif') fixed}[ Background by www.Soup-Faerie.Com ]
****
advice
ok well i have this guy friend lets just call him john. and i like him ALOT i mean ALOT and theres this banquet comin up and my friend david said that (john) is gonna ask me 2 it. but im sure if i should go cuz i wont know hardly anyone there, and i dont wanna get embarressed. wut should i do? and should i tell him how i really feel?
What would get you embarressed? I think you should go! It will be really fun! Yes, you should tell him how you feel. You only live life once, you know, and if you dont go it could be a Huge Mistake! Who knows what could happen if you go.. There is a change things could go wrong, but there is a much better change things will work out and a new, good relationship could be formed! Good Luck and hope u have fun going!! :)
*Hope i Helped
Erin!
hey i broke up with my boyfriend a little over a month ago and he has a new girlfriend and all, and hes pretty much flat out avoiding me, but i still want to be friends. i havent actually spoken to him cuz i was kinda waiting for him to say something first. its pretty clear that he isnt, and i dont really know what i should say to him. i really want to be friends with him still, but i dont really know how to go about doing it. help!
I think if you want to be friends with him then u need ot tlak to him. Tell him that u still want to be friends with him. Was there a reason u broke up with him? Or did u do it without letting him know why? If thats true then u should explain to him why u broke up with him, but you'd love it if u could still be friends! ahhh im terrible at this advice sorry
I've been kinda involved with this guy I met about a year ago, and we've been talking ever since. We talk all the time, and we know how much we care for each other. Problem is, I only get to see him about twice a year, because he lives so far away. Now, I met this other guy a few weeks ago, and apparently, he's grown quite fond of me, even though i dont really feel as if i know him that well. I dont know how to tell this other guy that I'm not ready for a relationship.
Don't be tricking this guy into thinking you are. There is a really easy solution to this problem. Tell him your not ready! Just be like, "Hey, I'm not ready to have a relationship with you yet because I don't feel like i know you well enough I'd like to get to know you better." i guess.. Sorry im not really focused right now!hope i helped al ittle maybe i will change my answer when im no so hyper1
Dear Erin,
Theres this guy at school. I've known him forever. We were pretty good friends. his obnoxious behavior really got to me.. i dont no why. ANYWAYS recently he got back with his ex girlfriend and EVERYTIME were talking online nd she comes on he just TOTALLY ignores me. Finally it got to me and i got reeeely mad and when his gf signed on i said " OOo your lovers on go on and ignore me now" or sumthin like that and u no what.. he DIDNT EVEN ASNWER! So i was talking to my other friend Kyle and i said OMG SHES(as in his gf not kyles but u no) ONLINE! She can just go ignore me. Then Kyle sent it to him and he goes WHY DO U EVEN WANNA TALK TO ME SO BAD. Anyways i got really mad... But i stil like him. And everyday i wish they would break up. I no this is mean and i no hes my friend but i SERIOUSLY cant handle watchign them, cuz he'll flirt wit me in front of her and gosh its bothering me.. ALOT. So Erin PLEASE help me!
From, aperson
Person,
Dont be jealous! Theres no reason to be. Don't let little things like this get to you. Move on. Ok my attention span is gone so I am kind of confused on what you are asking. Re send it with less capitals and proper writing please? But umm Just dont be jealous if u are oh wait u never said u were... ok dont be mad! just move on to a better guy! dont waste ur time on one guy wuen there are a bajillion more out there! and resend this so i can help better
dear erin,
i recently broke up with my bf because i really just didnt like him like that and it wasnt working out for me. well recently he's been walking around with these girls and its driving me insane! i dont even know why, cuz i didnt even like him! well there's this senior(im a fish) and hes been hitting on me A LOT and like, walks me to classes and stuff, and i mean, i dont like, want a serious relationship with him or whatever cuz i know that he's like this with almost every girl, but everytime i see my ex-bf with some girl i cant wait until he can see me with the senior. i know this is wrong, but what should i do? help!
luv,
jealous person (sry i can't think of a real name my fav tv show is on lol)
Hey! I have a feeling i know who this is! Anyway, with the jealousy part... I mean, you probably still have some feelings for him, and there is a part of you that doesnt want to let go. As time goes on, you'll grow unjealous. As for the senior, if you are just using him to make your ex jealous, thats not very cool! If you like really like him or something, then thats ok, but just beware that he is a senior and you are *new meat* to him... he could use that to his advantage... and with this ex, chances are you wont end up together for the rest of your lives, so dont be jealous of him when there are like a zillion mroe guys to choose from! umm i didnt really help i dont think so I/M me if you want more advice! I hope i gave u helpful info... sorry that this isnt very good!
XoXo *Erin*
Erin-
i really neeed your help...i mean..i know that your really good with advice and everything, so please dont reject this. My boyfriend and i are really close, and i know he wants to make out with me and erin..I DONT KNOW HOW!! wat do i do??
In my opinion, it should be natural. You don't need to be told how to make out. I know you were probably expecting like a whole technique on how to make out or whatever, but the best way is just letting things happen. I'm assuming you've never kissed him before, and maybe never even kissed a guy before, but your first kiss should be special and remembered forever. Just let things happen as they do, and if your not ready, then don't feel pressured. (Its fun but not necessary lol) Im sorry this hasn't been very helpful, lately my advice kinda sucks!! I'd say hope this helped, but i dont think it did. Good luck though and I really do hope this somewhat helped, and i you want, I/M me and ill try to give you more help!
XoXO Erin!
Dear Erin,
Theres this guy i met a LONG time ago. We were close.. really tight like best friends. Anyways theres this girl that hes known forever and shes a demanding bitch (scuze my french) and shes changed him so much. He doesnt realize it of course but he has. Recently i was talking to him online and he told me he liked me n the other girl but would never go out with us. But we were more then just *other girls*. Anyways hes ALLWAYS around her in school and it seems like we never talk in schol cuz we have no classes together this year but hes ALLWAYS around her. ANYWAYS i like him. like more then just a friend but hes ALLWAYS around the bitch. And he used to be like obsessed with her. ANYWAS i have NO IDEA wat to do! So ADVICE WOULD BE WELCOME ERIN!
from> Love sucks
Dear Love Sucks,
Arrange a time when you two can spend some time together (without her)! If you go to my school, we have long breaks, so meet with him then. Ask him why he says he will never go out with you. I mean if he likes you and considers you more than just *another girl* whats the problem right?. If you have a problem with this other girl, tell him nicely. Let him know that you think she isn't the nicest person and that she has changed him and how she makes you feel. I've learned that the best thing is to be completely honest with people. It takes you further in life! And, have you ever heard of weekends or after school? Meet with him then! Find chances to be around him whenever you get! Talk to him about things too, and hopefully things will work out for the better! Sorry this advice isn't very good, but I hope it helped somewhat!
xOxO ErIn!
what do you do when you like someone but they dont like you back but yet you two are friends
Hmmm.... This happens to everyone sometime or another! Does this person know you like them? Do you know they dont like you? If you havent talked about this wiht them then u cant be sure. IF you have an you know they dont like you, dont lose hope! Stay friends with her but dont suffocate her wiht ur "affection" as time goes on your relationship will grow hope this helped and good luck!
xoxo Erin
I like this guy but i dont kno if he likes me back, but he kind-of sending me signals. i dont kno what to do. should i ask him or just wait and see what happens. i dont want to talk to him and embarrass myself, but i want to kno.
signed,
confused and crushin
Dear confused and crushin,
Haha! Wow this question is like words taken straight from my mouth! In my opinion, You only live life once, so take a chance. When your talking to him, bring up the subject about who he likes. If he does mention you, then go for it! If your name doesn't come up, don't wait for him. Directly ask him if he likes you. If he says no, its not the end of the world, and there are plenty more guys to choose from! If he says yes, then yay for you! Thanks for this question, I kind of just gave myself some advice! Good Luck with this and let me know how things worked out! Hope this Helped!
XoXo ErIn~
Dear HINKLE! what do you do if one of ur so called (friends) told u to rbeak up with your bf but then GOES OUT WITH HIM?
SIGNED, MAD AND PISSED etc.
Dear MAD AND PISSED etc,
Friend: Someone who can be trusted and will be by your side when everyone else is against you.
To me, this doesn't sound like a friend. Friends don't do that to each other. If you haven't done so already, then talk to them calmly, asking why they would do that and explaining how it made you feel. Don't ignore them and don't be mad at them without confronting them. They need to that they hurt you. Its up to you if you choose to continue being friends with them or not. Also, talk ot your boyfriend and explain to him why you broke up with him, and see if you can work something out . And always remember, there are PLENTY of *fish in the sea*, so if things don't work out with him, *go fish!* Hope this helped!
XoXO Erin